REALLY REALLY ANGRY

[GanjaBob]

Okay well my Nazi mother who i have absolutly no respect for anymore tried to get me to go take a drug test today. I told her that I didnt need to because i would not pass it. Well you would think she would appreaciate me being honest but no instead the fucking bitch threatens to call the police on me and now I am grounded for a month or more. I really love her but for this i can never truely respect her as a person. Another thing is, is that she smoked when she was my age and now she has to freak out on me about it. I really have no respect for any adult like this because they are total hypocrits and i am really really pissed off right now. Another thing i cant stand about adults is that because I am 16 they think i am less of a person than they are. Why should they have so many more rights than me i have a brain that functions better than alot of our idiot adults we have out there *cough* George bush *cough*. Ageism is really dumb and for all the adults that think they are supirior to me because they have lived longer can go fuck themselves i am seriously sick of this.
Thank you for your time i needed to rant
Bob

[friendowl]

moms is only trying to protect her witle baby
she probobly remembers how she got fucked up and thinks the same for you.
just show her thru your actions that whatever you decide will be for your best interest.if she wants to give you a drug test just tell her you smoke weed fuck it.if not just play the game better and keep shit to yourself.stop looking for approval for everything you do.

[Bman719]

Damn, that does suck. You're right, you would think that being honest would make her take it a bit easy on you.. but Parents can be assholes sometimes. Just explain to her your reasoning (i'd pull up info on marijuana to back you up) and just try to get her to understand. It's one thing if you do it in her house, since it is her house and her rules should apply, but whatever you do outside that house should be your own choice. Good luck though... being in that position is never fun.

[3 Sheets To The Wind]

That's whacked... things should get better with time, good luck :D

[SmurfyBH]

Intresting..... I concur.

[GanjaBob]

Yes i have tried showing her research and what not proving her bullshit wrong but she is convinced that everything DARE says is true. You know because the government wouldent lie.

[SmurfyBH]

Maybe she ran out of Vespene gas?

[del...]

i'm sure she understands his reasoning...the problem is she doesn't want it in her home or her son doing it and until he's out of her home and on his own he'll have to put up with house rules. and rules don't end once you leave the 'rents...

[friendowl]

bake that nazi bitch some canna butter and make her breakfast in bed.
hot toast with coffee.
when shes feeling good tell her thats how you like to feel too so enjoy it and shut the fuck up

[GanjaBob]

HAHA yeah i actually considered that once but i wouldent want to waste my precious grass on her. I asked her why she drank wine and she said 'because i like the taste and it relaxes me'. Well i told her thats why i smoke weed and she says 'No when i did it i was always just out of it, you cant think when your high, and it makes you dumb'. She also is sure i will have cancer in 6 months. Yet she dosent seem to care about my sister who smokes a pack of cigs a day and drinks everynight in our house which really pisses me off.

[soxsuk6432]

My mom is very similar to that except for the fact that she didn't smoke. I have been grounded for about 3 months now and have been caught 2 times since Christmas. What sucks even more is I got grounded for another month today because I accidentally slept through school. Parents can be annoying as hell but I could never not respect my mother seeing as she has given me a place to live, food, and clothing for 14 years. The best thing to do is just refuse to not smoke and be honest with them. I am open with my parents about my smoking now but it hasn't seemed to help much. But your mom smoke she will probably be understanding as long as you keep your grades up and remain respectful (or atleast fake it). Just show her that the antidrug people are full of it and she will begin to accept it.

[3 Sheets To The Wind]

HAHA yeah i actually considered that once but i wouldent want to waste my precious grass on her. I asked her why she drank wine and she said 'because i like the taste and it relaxes me'. Well i told her thats why i smoke weed and she says 'No when i did it i was always just out of it, you cant think when your high, and it makes you dumb'. She also is sure i will have cancer in 6 months. Yet she dosent seem to care about my sister who smokes a pack of cigs a day and drinks everynight in our house which really pisses me off.

Aww damn man. Well my mum's said to me "If you keep doing this stuff you'll probably have overdosed on heroin or something in a couple of years" I couldn't fuckin' believe it! I had to walk off before I got too pissed lol.

[GanjaBob]

I would gladly move out of the house i hate living here, and i do have a place that i am welcome to stay at and be fed and everything. But the time i tried moving out my mom called the cops on me.

[soxsuk6432]

Holy shit my mom said nearly the exact same thing. It must be the antidrug commercials. But I always thought England was atleast a bit less retarded than the U.S.

[soxsuk6432]

I would gladly move out of the house i hate living here, and i do have a place that i am welcome to stay at and be fed and everything. But the time i tried moving out my mom called the cops on me.
Damn that sucks. I feel abit out of place but I don't have a steady source of income. If you have a job move out. I don't think she can do anything about it although I'm not sure. Live with a friendf or something if you're that unhappy leave.

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.

[SmurfyBH]

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.
Jesus?

[GanjaBob]

I am also curious as to what all of you think about the whole Ageism thing i spoke of.

[TresLeches]

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.

ha!

[justinsane]

the thing about parent hypocrism is that they didnt know the truth about things when they did all theyre stuff. they didnt know cigerettes were bad or that anything could have a bad consquence... so now that they see that some of the things were hurtful (not weed) they think everything is harmful and bad...

[del...]

or perhaps we feel that 16 is just too young?

[GanjaBob]

Why do you feel that 16 is to young. I feel that i am responsible and mature enough to smoke pot and i belive that is all that should matter. Why should how long i have been living determine what i can or cannot do with my own body?

[SmurfyBH]

I moved out when I was 16...

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

AGE is meaningless. my dad has the mindset of a fucking 12 year old.
i've seen 12 year olds with as much wisdom and maturity as 25 year olds should have!


and most 25 year olds are as immature as 16 year old punks!


the world is so fucking insane, and people keep trying to blame everything but themselves for everything that is wrong in the world. everyone says it's the punk kids, everyone says it's the old farts, everyone says everything they can to make it look like they are better in some fassion.

get out there and start breaking heads i say. the world's fucked up one end and down the other, and we just sit here letting it be.

i blame myself for not getting out there and making a change, and i blame all of you for that as well.

[del...]

maturity man. how many adults do you see coming here posting about not getting their raise they had counted on so they're going to kill their boss or or the store was out of something so they're gonna kill the manager...? besides the fact if you do everything now what will there be to look forward to when you turn 21? it is admirable of you to confront your mom face-face but did you really expect her to say, "oh, ok...go ahead now that i understand how you feel about it."? even when it becomes legalized do you realistically think it'll be made legal for minors too?

[daima]

Hey GanjaBob,
Here's what you do. You buy a t-shit that says "drug testing in progress", and wear it in front of your mom. let her guess what drugs you are testing :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

dai*ma :thumbsup:
pee for enjoyment, not for nosey parents or employment :stoned:

[Stoner Shadow Wolf]

lmfao THAT is awesome!

[CYRAX]

im in the same world of bullshit as you man... amagine having a mother like that and trying to pull off a 100+ plant grow a half a mile away from your house...(thats me), hah...

goodluck bro.

[GanjaBob]

haha that would be great.
And as for your comment del...
Just like SSW said there are 15 year olds who are way more mature than some 30 year olds. i think that if you think you are ready to smoke pot you should be allowed to.

[Irv]

GanjaBob, whatever bullshit they try to throw, the clock will strike "18" in 2 yrs and it will all be left behind....(by the way, they have no right to gound you nor to make you take a drug test, have you ever thought about YOUR rights?

[GanjaBob]

I belive they have the right to ground me because they are my legal gaurdians but explain what you mean please.

[soxsuk6432]

Hey GanjaBob,
Here's what you do. You buy a t-shit that says "drug testing in progress", and wear it in front of your mom. let her guess what drugs you are testing :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

dai*ma :thumbsup:
pee for enjoyment, not for nosey parents or employment :stoned:
Haha that was funny.

[altagid]

Ganja, I am 55 yrs old and I am a lot smarter than you! What the fuck do you think I did in those 39 years if not learn a thing or two. Dont you expect to get smarter over time? I have 3 boys all grown. Now I smoke with them (the eldest isnt into it). But when they were teenagers I lied to them and sneaked around to smoke a J. (Apparently they were doing the same) If I had know that they were smoking pot I would have been pretty darn anxious because its a situation that can go many ways from a smoking a J to messing with hard drugs and bad kids - you dont know which it is and you get scared. Being a parent is a job from hell. The stakes are huge and no one knows what the fuck he is doing! You have to muddle through as best you can and the teenage years can be downright scary! When I was their age thas IS what I did and several of my friends didnt make it to adulthood. Teenage boys may know everything but they have a very poor track record. They are very prone to killing or injuring themselves and others through their own stupidity. No joke. Also, everyone is a hypocrite at one time or another, you included! Its an unavoidable part of being human - get over it. My kids accused me of being one - and they were right. Your kids will do the same to you and they will be right too!

[GanjaBob]

Its not really an issue on how smart the person is. What I am talking about is the ability to make your own choices in life . I dont think that if i want to snort some meth and jump off a bridge the government or anyone should be able to stop me because it is my body and i think we should have the right to do what we want with our minds and bodys despite what our age is. Im not saying adults are not more intellegent because the majority are, Im saying that if you are mature enough to make your own choices then i dont think the number of years you have been alive should stop you.

[GanjaBob]

And I am not saying that i approve of meth because i dont , but i belive that if someone wants to use it there shouldent be some rich guy in a big building in washington saying he cant.
peace
bob

[altagid]

Anyways here's my advice. You didnt ask for it but you get it anyway because like I said, I am just so fucking smart! Try to see it a bit from your mom's pt of view. She is scared. You are growing up and she is losing her ability to protect you - at the same time the stake are getting much higher. Try to reassure her. Explain this has no connection with hard drugs or hard kids. Point out that kids your age are drinking and that really is dangerous! Tell her that she has to trust you to use your judgement - she brought you up and taught you - now you know how to behave. Reassure her that this doesnt mean you are going to become a juvenile delinquent or that your grades will suffer. Remind her that you are growing up and she is going to have to let go some. Explain that you want an honest relationship with her that you want to be able to approach her as a friend and talk about your life. If she cracks down like this it will only mean that you will hide shit from her. Be a little patient - let her rant and rave a while she gets used to the idea.

[GanjaBob]

Yes but everytime i explain the bit about alcohol and my grades and whatnot she pulls up the DARE website and starts going off about how my braincells are being killed every second.

[altagid]

Be patient. Explain that that site exaggerates the risks for the sake of propaganda. Brain cells are dying all the time , in everyone. Many intellectuals, scientists and engineers smoke mj. I am a mathematician and I have been smoking since I was your age. From the comments I see around here there are a lot of smart people on this forum - there's also a lot of really stoned morons who, in my opinion, should be donated to medical experiments

Hang in there! I give you full marks for standing up to her and being upfront - she will respect you and appreciate it - even though she is going to yell and scream on the way.

When she calms down, suggest you smoke together so that she can be in your life.

[GanjaBob]

Haha wow she just came downstairs and told me that i was nothing but a criminal and i disgust her. i really wanted to flip shit on her but instead i just said 'i love you too mom'

[Irv]

I belive they have the right to ground me because they are my legal gaurdians but explain what you mean please.
They have the right to tell you that you're grounded, and you have the right to ignore them and do as you please...

[Irv]

Be patient. Explain that that site exaggerates the risks for the sake of propaganda. Brain cells are dying all the time , in everyone. Many intellectuals, scientists and engineers smoke mj. I am a mathematician and I have been smoking since I was your age. From the comments I see around here there are a lot of smart people on this forum - there's also a lot of really stoned morons who, in my opinion, should be donated to medical experiments

Hang in there! I give you full marks for standing up to her and being upfront - she will respect you and appreciate it - even though she is going to yell and scream on the way.

When she calms down, suggest you smoke together so that she can be in your life.
yes, and you no longer need to be honest with her about your business until she has earned back your trust from her many betrayals of you.....

[GanjaBob]

They have the right to tell you that you're grounded, and you have the right to ignore them and do as you please...Yeah tried that once...... that was the second time she called the cops on me.

[Irv]

:rolleyes:

[potsmokingnome]

Okay well my Nazi mother who i have absolutly no respect for anymore tried to get me to go take a drug test today. I told her that I didnt need to because i would not pass it. Well you would think she would appreaciate me being honest but no instead the fucking bitch threatens to call the police on me and now I am grounded for a month or more. I really love her but for this i can never truely respect her as a person. Another thing is, is that she smoked when she was my age and now she has to freak out on me about it. I really have no respect for any adult like this because they are total hypocrits and i am really really pissed off right now. Another thing i cant stand about adults is that because I am 16 they think i am less of a person than they are. Why should they have so many more rights than me i have a brain that functions better than alot of our idiot adults we have out there *cough* George bush *cough*. Ageism is really dumb and for all the adults that think they are supirior to me because they have lived longer can go fuck themselves i am seriously sick of this.
Thank you for your time i needed to rant
Bob
Don't blaim ya for being pissed! Honesty when it comes to telling your parrents you do drugs is not allways the best policy, but your Mom is just trying to protect you, she proably views her experience with drugs a bad thing, and doesn't want you making the same mistakes. Generation gap is a bitch! I'm sure when i have kids i will be more open to them to smoking pot, but then again I don't and won't regard smoking weed as a bad experience, or effect on me so what if I failed grade 10 when I started smoking weed with my friends. But I got my act together and finished highschool after that year, and I wouldn't change anything if I could about my grade ten year it was the best times of my life, and now years later I find myself back smoking the herb, the herb rocks!!

[likemclever]

Be patient. Explain that that site exaggerates the risks for the sake of propaganda. Brain cells are dying all the time , in everyone. Many intellectuals, scientists and engineers smoke mj. I am a mathematician and I have been smoking since I was your age. From the comments I see around here there are a lot of smart people on this forum - there's also a lot of really stoned morons who, in my opinion, should be donated to medical experiments

Hang in there! I give you full marks for standing up to her and being upfront - she will respect you and appreciate it - even though she is going to yell and scream on the way.

When she calms down, suggest you smoke together so that she can be in your life.

welcome welcome welcome

where the hell were you when I need a tutor...contemporary mathematics.

A favorite of liberal arts students : )

[likemclever]

I just noticed that you've been here for a while altagid

but welcome anyway :stoned:

[altagid]

Likem: thank you for you warm welcome! I do appreciate it.

I love tutoring math - if anyone does need help - dont hesitate! :)

Ganja: Your mom really shouldnt say "You are nothing but a common criminal" Its a bad mistake IMO but I read it as a desparate attempt to get through to you. This may be the first encounter for her in which you see the world differently from her and stand firm on your position. Up till now she could likely dismiss your opinion and make you do what she wants - was it your choice to be potty trained? There will be more confrontations like this in the next few years and standing your ground early on in this process is very important. Just because she is being a jackass about it doesnt mean you should too. Avoid inflammatory confrontations even when she provokes - it will only make things worse for both of you. Try to find calm moments and gently point out to her that you have your own opinions and she should respect them: that your use of ganja is a decision that you have thought about carefuly (if you havent then now is the time!) and that she should respect that even if she disagrees. That you are not a common criminal - you believe in the law and being law abiding but you use your own judgement. "A foolish consistency is the hobgobblin of small minds" / Hobbes. Surely she speeds sometimes when driving - thats a case of he making her own judgement despite the law. Point out that she has a lot better chance of influencing you if she is a friend rather than an adversary. Be calm - let her rant and rave - stick to your guns - she will likely hear you but it will take time.

When my eldest was your age we had similar problems - not MJ - it was booze and schoolwork. I tried the approach that your mom has taken and it crashed and burned - leaving us both further apart and resentful of each other. I wish I could have been smarter - I did alot better with his brothers - like I said I did learn a thing or two over the years. In the end he got his act together and did great. I still have bad nights when I recall the shitty time I gave him. We are good friends now but there is still something of a barrier between us that I dont feel with his brothers - sigh

[likemclever]

I have a five year old...your scaring the shit out of me. I have a girl :eek:

[GanjaBob]

Thanks for all the advice. Being grounded blows! man im bored

[soxsuk6432]

^ I hear ya dude. How long you grounded for?

[GanjaBob]

meh prolly like 2 weeks
she hasent really said yet

[intheclouds]

I know what you all are talking about.. Sounds like my exwife with my son. When he was finally able to contact me, She had called the cops on him and was on his way to jail. I went to visit every visting day, His mom did to but he made her cry every time she showed up. The day he come out she was there to get him. He told her to kiss his ass and he came home with me and my present wife. We talk almost every day now and he is 20 yrs. old now and we both have a grow going and I just talked to him today to see if he wanted to help me get a cactus grow and a shroom grow up and going. We will probably get started in a month or so. My point being some grown-ups are brain washed and then there are the rest of us. BTW I am 46 yrs. old.

This says it all:
A nation of sheeps will beget a government of wolves

Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will beLIEve it..

"The only power any government has is the power to crack down on criminals. Well, when there aren't enough criminals, one makes them. One declares so many things to be a crime that it becomes impossible for men to live without breaking laws.â?�

Good Luck To Us All !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[GanjaBob]

Yeah you sound like my dad, he smokes and he trys to defend me from my mom (they are divorced) but he dosent have room for me to live with him so it really sucks.

[CocaCola]

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.


AGE is meaningless. my dad has the mindset of a fucking 12 year old.
i've seen 12 year olds with as much wisdom and maturity as 25 year olds should have!


and most 25 year olds are as immature as 16 year old punks!


the world is so fucking insane, and people keep trying to blame everything but themselves for everything that is wrong in the world. everyone says it's the punk kids, everyone says it's the old farts, everyone says everything they can to make it look like they are better in some fassion.

get out there and start breaking heads i say. the world's fucked up one end and down the other, and we just sit here letting it be.

i blame myself for not getting out there and making a change, and i blame all of you for that as well.
CLAP CLAP nice dude.

And to this thread... 4 and 1/2 stars. I know people who go through this bullshit rough like you're going throug now, Ganja. I'm lucky my mom was a stoner. But it's true that she only wants what is best for you, but you've got to explain to her that... YOU KNOW THAT SHE ONLY WANTS WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU BUT... she has gotta understand that you will be fine, and that you're really doing nothing wrong and even if you are, she should learn to accpet it rather then despise her son over such a stupid fucking thing. Maybe only toke rarely for awhile, while away from your house... teach her that you CAN be responsible.

[GanjaBob]

You see this is another question i have. Although this is not the case with my mother but it is the case for some of my friends. Their parents say they dont care about the smoking part they just dont want them to get caught so they are not allowed to smoke. Well if thats all they are concerned for why not give your kid a safe enviornment to do it? I have never quite understood this.

[Smokey Bear]

New here.
Anyways, a good way to get through to your mom could be a written letter.
It's personal, you have time to get all your feelings down, and she can't interrupt. You can take time to sort it all out and say things exactly how you want without rash behavior.
Be sure as well to tell her how much you love her, lots of parents feel a disrespect for authority is from a lack of their nurturing so they overcompensate in situations like this. Assure that it isn't so, and that you appreciate all she has done for you, while stating your feeling of injustice at the situation.
Be respectful and mature in handling it, but be firm in what you believe.

[GanjaBob]

Yeah i actually sent her an email last night doing all of the things you said and i think it pissed her off more. I seriously give up, I hate living here.

[Skink]

Okay well my Nazi mother who i have absolutly no respect for anymore tried to get me to go take a drug test today. I told her that I didnt need to because i would not pass it. Well you would think she would appreaciate me being honest but no instead the fucking bitch threatens to call the police on me and now I am grounded for a month or more. I really love her but for this i can never truely respect her as a person. Another thing is, is that she smoked when she was my age and now she has to freak out on me about it. I really have no respect for any adult like this because they are total hypocrits and i am really really pissed off right now. Another thing i cant stand about adults is that because I am 16 they think i am less of a person than they are. Why should they have so many more rights than me i have a brain that functions better than alot of our idiot adults we have out there *cough* George bush *cough*. Ageism is really dumb and for all the adults that think they are supirior to me because they have lived longer can go fuck themselves i am seriously sick of this.
Thank you for your time i needed to rant
Bob Trust me You will be singing a different tune when you are older!!!!

[GanjaBob]

No i really will be singing the same tune , i can assure you that.

[endo..jay]

Trust me You will be singing a different tune when you are older!!!!

exactly..over the last few years I have come to relize just how important family is

[GanjaBob]

Im not saying Family isnt important and i never have said that. All I am doing is expressing my anger over my mom being an unreasonable ignorant nazi. But i still love her dearly.

[Smokey Bear]

She probably is not ignorant.
She thinks that you can't handle the responsibility of smoking and school, and whatever else. It doesn't mean you can't, just that all in all she is almost certainly looking out for your well being.
I would probably react similarily to how you are if my parents were to find out but I am an outsider, so I can view it objectively.

[GanjaBob]

Well if ignorance is not thinking that weed will cause me to get cancer in a year then i dont know what is.

[Smokey Bear]

True, that is ignorance.
But would she worry that about anyone other than her child?

[GanjaBob]

Yes she divorced my father because she found out he smoked. And she belives that marijuana users are all stupid and the scum of the earth or somthing like that i dont remember her exact words.

And the divorce wasnt just for the weed but it was a big part of it and i just found this out today.

[soxsuk6432]

What you should do is keep your grades up if they're high but if they're low bring them up. And tell her you were smoking the entire time. I'm going to do that so far it's going good straight A's for me. Then I'll be smoking in my room (hopefully). I would be worth a shot. But it could be risky confessing that you were smoking even thought she told you not to.

[Smokey Bear]

Yes, quite right.
I have never had a problem maintaining good grades since I began smoking (two years ago). Am a straight A student, and heck, I smoke at school!

[intheclouds]

Yeah you sound like my dad, he smokes and he trys to defend me from my mom (they are divorced) but he dosent have room for me to live with him so it really sucks.

Hey man just try to hang in there, and keep this in the back of you mind, If it don't get better you can go out on your own in a couple of years.
Hey you always have us!
Good luck to you man!

[intheclouds]

Yes, quite right.
I have never had a problem maintaining good grades since I began smoking (two years ago). Am a straight A student, and heck, I smoke at school!
Of course I graduated in 1977, But I would have never made it thru if I had not had my weed. It really helped me!

[Smokey Bear]

Yep yep.
My school is independent study, so we can leave the building whenever we want, and there is a fenced in lot at the back, with some abandoned cars. We just climb in one of those a toke away.
Put in eyedrops, and no one is the wiser.
We smoke everyday....fun fun.

[intheclouds]

Yep yep.
My school is independent study, so we can leave the building whenever we want, and there is a fenced in lot at the back, with some abandoned cars. We just climb in one of those a toke away.
Put in eyedrops, and no one is the wiser.
We smoke everyday....fun fun.

That proves it! That sounds exactly like 30 years ago. If it was wrong it would have changed by now!

I got an idea, We got Republican, Democrat, and Independent. What we need is a candidate on the Cannabis Ticket. Works for me.

[mike45]

I had the same situation when i lived with my mom. I had blunt guts in my trashcan and she found them. I got drug tested and grounded for a month. It was pretty simple, I didn't fight it i just dint smoke for a month. When my punishment was over the first thing i did was light up lol

[mrdevious]

Maybe she ran out of Vespene gas?

you mean the gas they use in star wars as fuel for weapons?

lol

[Smokey Bear]

That proves it! That sounds exactly like 30 years ago. If it was wrong it would have changed by now!

I got an idea, We got Republican, Democrat, and Independent. What we need is a candidate on the Cannabis Ticket. Works for me.

Exactly.
And I have found that I test better when stoned.
So perhaps it is beneficial to my thought process, and nessecary in order for me to live up to my full potential? :D :stoned:

[tootsie roll]

I have a five year old...your scaring the shit out of me. I have a girl :eek:

Wait til the boys start calling and coming over and wanting to date your baby girl. :eek:

[tootsie roll]

You see this is another question i have. Although this is not the case with my mother but it is the case for some of my friends. Their parents say they dont care about the smoking part they just dont want them to get caught so they are not allowed to smoke. Well if thats all they are concerned for why not give your kid a safe enviornment to do it? I have never quite understood this.

Look. Maybe your mom will chill at some point. My brother and I would smoke in our cars, at friends, in parks. One day we come home and there is an announcement.

Mom: Look, I'm sick of worrying about you 2 smoking that shit out there. You could get caught and then what? From now on you can smoke in the house,BUT, only in your bedrooms.

Me & brother: Really? We can? Cooooool!

Every night after that when she would come up to her bedroom, we'd hear her mutter "I can still smell that shit. Go to sleep":dance: LOLOL

[GanjaBob]

NIce you are very lucky

[Smokey Bear]

Hahaha.
That is SO funny.

[tootsie roll]

Yes she divorced my father because she found out he smoked. And she belives that marijuana users are all stupid and the scum of the earth or somthing like that i dont remember her exact words.

And the divorce wasnt just for the weed but it was a big part of it and i just found this out today.


Well, there you have it hon. In a nutshell. She's pissed at your dad and a major part of the break up was due to his smoking.
The thing she is doing wrong is taking her frustrations out on you.

Since she sees weed as bad and your dad is bad for smoking it and then there's you. Now she's mad at you cuz you smoke.

It's all a big circle. You mom needs to seperate you from your dad and see that you are 2 different people.
She's prolly hurtin.

[tootsie roll]

NIce you are very lucky

Me and my brother got closer that year and over the next several years we lived there.

Seriously....all kids want to leave home so they can be their own boss. My brother and I ended up staying well past 21.:thumbsup: She paid our car insurance and medical insurance fed us and stocked our necessities. We had it made man. I was almost bummed out when I met my husband. I didn't wanna leave home!!! LOLOLOL

[Smokey Bear]

Tootsie roll, I love your avatar. It's really cute.

[GanjaBob]

lol i used to have the same one but i changed it when she joined cuz i didnt want to have the same one.

[tootsie roll]

Tootsie roll, I love your avatar. It's really cute.


Well thank you sweetie, :) I just happen to love Smokey Bear. He's a long time idol of mine. :D

[Smokey Bear]

Well it's cute.

[tootsie roll]

lol i used to have the same one but i changed it when she joined cuz i didnt want to have the same one.


Your old av is the same as the one I'm using? You could have kept it. I'da found something else.

[GanjaBob]

nah it was time for a change anyways

[Irv]

i was sleeping one morning, age 16, and my mom came in & got my jacket to take to the cleaners, by the time i beat it down the hall to say "excuse me....but...", she was holding the oz that was in the pocket and said "i guess you want your shit." and i said "well, yeah...", and she said "well i'd flush it but i guess you'd find more money to support your habit" :rasta: all i know is i got it back, pretty cool. Anyway, i moved out at 17, life's been pretty cool in that respect ever since, it gets over:stoned: :dance: :thumbsup: