what are you gonna get your partner for valentines

[friendowl]

im stuck this year on gifts.
its been 5 years and ive gone thru the normal stuff.
i need some suggestions on a unique gift.

[benagain]

I dunno. You could allways surpise her by taking her to an expensive resturant on the water or something. You could allways do what I do and just ask her what she wants. Tell it will be her day to name what she wants to do. You never know it might be a day at the spa or something and you can chill at the house playing games and she'd love you for it.

[Syrus]

I no longer have that problem cos my lass left em for drug related reasons. Treat her to a romantic weekend, always works for me.

[friendowl]

been there done that.
www.mortons.com
great place to eat.
did the its your day thing
shes got all the usual shit.
maybe i should buy her some sex toys.
shes never got down with stuff like that and me either.some nurse here said thats what she would like.and a babysitter so they cant hear mommie scream

[bedake]

i dont believe in valentines day, never have never will and refuse to acknowledge the day while in relationships, if the girl wants me to sorry but im not gonna, if its a problem you arnt my type of girl

[friendowl]

damn bedake you a like sour grapes
everything that comes out of your mouth
is depressing.you got a lil black raincloud over your head

[beachguy in thongs]

I've already given my Valentine's gift, because I had to set it up. It was a vanity set, you know, table w/drawer, stool, and three mirrors. That cost $130.

[insanity]

i dont believe in valentines day, never have never will and refuse to acknowledge the day while in relationships, if the girl wants me to sorry but im not gonna, if its a problem you arnt my type of girl

That's pretty lame dude, I mean sure the holiday is kinda lame, but its a chance to show someone you love that you still care.

As for what to get her, I recomend a custom inscribed jewlery box with a nice pair of earrings or something. There is a website that lets you transpose a poem on to the box.

[bedake]

damn bedake you a like sour grapes
everything that comes out of your mouth
is depressing.you got a lil black raincloud over your head


im not always depressing am i?

hehe my views on valentines day reflect my views on society as a whole, read the book affluenza and branded, both very true about society in america especially. but in actuallity i am a really happy go lucky guy, its just valentines day to me is just a holiday made up by corporations to rake in millions from people who buy into it. think about it, how sweet is the notion of buying flowers for your girlfriend when society expects it of you and it is a social norm. Not sweet at all, its only done because its required practically.

I am a sweet caring boyfriend all the time, my girlfriend doesnt need some special holiday for me to buy her flowers, that to me i think is a more more caring action, being sweet all the time that is

As for the girl not being my type, I like girls to have similar political, and sociological views as myself, i cant stand dating superficial girls that buy into whatever is on tv nothing in common, its like dating a cheer leader. i dont mean to be depressive im sorry and i know valentines day is for saint valentine but .001% of the day really is

[bedake]

That's pretty lame dude, I mean sure the holiday is kinda lame, but its a chance to show someone you love that you still care.

As for what to get her, I recomend a custom inscribed jewlery box with a nice pair of earrings or something. There is a website that lets you transpose a poem on to the box.


refer to my post above, i show my girl i care every day, i dont need some phony corporate greed holiday to make me feel obligated to do so.

[friendowl]

i agree with that but dont buy your girl nothing on valentines day and im sure shed get sort of hurt.i just go with the flow.so i can get my hearton

[LOVElife]

PEARL NECKLACE FOR MY LASS

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA]

[notrightquite]

Alright, you take shit too seriously bedake. I'm probably getting my girl candy, flowers, and sex. All of the staples of V-day. Why? Because I want to. Otherwise it's like a birthday without cake. And I don't even like cake. Of course I'll stick a huge bud in the flowers, and it'll be super-kinky rough sex, and possibly something weird with the candy. But still ... candy, flowers, and sex. That's just how it is.

[bedake]

i agree with that but dont buy your girl nothing on valentines day and im sure shed get sort of hurt.i just go with the flow.so i can get my hearton


nah she views it the same as me, she doesnt like my views on birthdays tho but ill give in for that, those views arnt very strong

haha so what you were born how does that make you special, so were billions of other people in history, your parents should be the ones celebrating the fact they are able to conceive kids... same with highschool graduation parties wtf man! any dumbass can graduate from highschool come on! in fact you graduated with hundreds of them, unless you are valedictorian you dont deserve a party. if you dropped out you are a moron, unless you had a good reason

its time we started celebrating real achievements, and real heroes. Overcoming heroin addiction, deserves a party, being born does not



not rightquite its not taking things too serious, my views on this are much like your probable views on pot legalization or something, some people oppose abortion, i oppose valentines day just a matter views thats all

what can i say i see things how they really are

[beachguy in thongs]

A Valentine's Card is good enough.

[SensiRide]

You could book her a day at a luxury spa, I'd be well impressed if someone bought me that, book her treatments like a facial, massage etc, its thoughtful, not many guys think of things like that.

No flowers, chocolates or teddies yuk, too unoriginal and the easy option out. And sexy underwear is really a gift for both of you.

You could book a hotel away in the countryside which has a swimming pool & sauna and chill there overnight, bring her a champagne breakfast in bed :)

[Fengzi]

refer to my post above, i show my girl i care every day, i dont need some phony corporate greed holiday to make me feel obligated to do so.

Yeah, I gotta agree with bedake on this one. I get my wife a card on Valentines Day and we treat ourselves to a nice dinner out (without the kid) but that's about it. On the other hand, I do randomly go out and buy her flowers and such for no reason at all other than to let her know I'm thinking of her.

As far as the big picture is concerned "I got you these flowers because it's Tuesday and I was thinking of you" will score you a whole lot more points with your loved one than "I ordered these flowers off the internet because it's Valentines Day and I had to do something"

[beachguy in thongs]

And sexy underwear is really a gift for both of you.

:)
I thought I'd bought them for myself, but now I know I can include them in my generosity, I guess. Thanks.

[Lily420]

my heart <3


...but then i kinda figured i need that :p my partner can suck my ballz for valintines.

[dark0ne]

home made chocolates, flowers, and a chick flick.

[BizzleLuvin]

the best damn threesome of his life

[STDzRus]

I surprised her by doing something simple...and spilling my heart to her in a card. Not some little piece of shit card with my name signed, I wrote a nice long thing telling her how much I love her and then I gave her a poem I made for her!

[bedake]

I surprised her by doing something simple...and spilling my heart to her in a card. Not some little piece of shit card with my name signed, I wrote a nice long thing telling her how much I love her and then I gave her a poem I made for her!


I hear girls like it more when you make em a card yourself like that, i made an ex once a card i think it was on her birthday but that doesnt matter, i made her a card of a bunch of stick figures at a rave complete with lazer light show, candy kids, glow sticks and a DJ, you see we both went to our first rave together and were automatically in love with the scene. then on inside i drew a bunch of pictures of things weve experienced togethder she loved it haha then i wrote some stuff in it, dont really remember

[Harvesthetic]

A weekend in the Ardennes.. two days of pure bliss & clean forest air, take a break from the city for a while. plus that way we can meet her uncle who doesn't live far away :) commercial crap or not, valentine's a good excuse for a great time.

[newbie1232]

Nothing. :( I just found out a girl i've liked for a while (who I have become friends with) already has a boyfriend...Oh well, I have an old GF (kinda) from a different state coming to visit in May :)

[Canadabis]

You gotta really figure out the personality of the person, I mean 5 years...you could even know if it would be "cuter" if you played stupid and forgot and just made a fun day out of it or something. Just dont be stupid, poor, or unprepared I geuss.
I geuss you just have to use your noggin!

[mrdevious]

That's pretty lame dude, I mean sure the holiday is kinda lame, but its a chance to show someone you love that you still care.




The holiday itself is really lame, downright stupid really (I'm not calling participants stupid, just the day).

1. I absoulately HATE this commercial propoganda that tells us "this is your chance to show someone how much you care". it's rediculous to depend on a corporate holiday for your "chance" to show them. if you love somebody, show them you love them, waiting for an artificial date is just silly.

and

2. Valentines day is just a corporate holiday. it's a means of brainwashing society into actually believing that you have to spend tons of money on chocolates and cards and restaraunts and all that crap. that's the only meaning there is to the day, for companies to make money, and I for one am not being sucked in.

[StOneD.aS.FuK]

fuck that american bullshit.

[Ganj]

i'm gonna get my special something a fleshlight.

[God v2.0]

You could book her a day at a luxury spa, I'd be well impressed if someone bought me that, book her treatments like a facial, massage etc, its thoughtful, not many guys think of things like that.

No flowers, chocolates or teddies yuk, too unoriginal and the easy option out. And sexy underwear is really a gift for both of you.

You could book a hotel away in the countryside which has a swimming pool & sauna and chill there overnight, bring her a champagne breakfast in bed :)

thank you so much, this is sure to save plenty of my relationships and i like the panties idea alot! well then again at a countryside hotel alot of very good things can happen;)

[bedake]

The holiday itself is really lame, downright stupid really (I'm not calling participants stupid, just the day).

1. I absoulately HATE this commercial propoganda that tells us "this is your chance to show someone how much you care". it's rediculous to depend on a corporate holiday for your "chance" to show them. if you love somebody, show them you love them, waiting for an artificial date is just silly.

and

2. Valentines day is just a corporate holiday. it's a means of brainwashing society into actually believing that you have to spend tons of money on chocolates and cards and restaraunts and all that crap. that's the only meaning there is to the day, for companies to make money, and I for one am not being sucked in.


w007 another member in the anti valentines day army, that makes 3 in this thread alone

[widowwhite]

Hey,
I've been too the belgian ardennes several times , very nice woods.
By the way have you got any friends in Ireland ? Ever been to Ireland ?
You ete misschien ein KUL etudiant ? Tres interesting ge bent viel op le internet. si vous wil ikke mit dir mailen , serieux , ben un peu paranoid , capiche ? If you want , you seem to be an interesting person , want to ask some questions about Belgium , travelling , ....

[STDzRus]

fuck that american bullshit.

Haha it's not just Americans dear.

[Ganj]

Hey,
I've been too the belgian ardennes several times , very nice woods.
By the way have you got any friends in Ireland ? Ever been to Ireland ?
You ete misschien ein KUL etudiant ? Tres interesting ge bent viel op le internet. si vous wil ikke mit dir mailen , serieux , ben un peu paranoid , capiche ? If you want , you seem to be an interesting person , want to ask some questions about Belgium , travelling , ....

WHAT IN THE FUCK...ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!

[STDzRus]

WHAT IN THE FUCK...ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!

:( :confused:

[Ganj]

:( :confused:

excuse me for the confusion. what i meant was, WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO?

[STDzRus]

LOL...I still think mine is the greatest on the list! *ego*

[widowwhite]

Halo Harvesthetic,
I've been to the ardennes several times , very nice up ther , the hills and the big woods.U etes ein very bezig little bee op le intranet. I'm new here too , You've been on this site for almost three months and I see you everywhere, very interesting. Ge bent maybe ein KUL student ? Have you Ever been on holiday in Ireland , looks a little bit like the ardennes , well it's the opposite I guess , but Ireland is a bit more beautiful , well that's what I think about the nature in the country...Ich wil gerne parler , mail mit dir , you weet ni op le net , 1 few vraagjes uber Belgien , holidays, vacances . If you want, aub , svp , bitte...ken du James...Sorry , alles ein bisschen schrik , sorry pour la confusion...keep the craic , hope van u quelque chose u horen...get back later this day to see if
'I've got a reply" By the way how come I want to send a private message to the moderator and am not able too ? Looking For Irish friends , I travel many times to Ireland , usually get Ryanair... Bye for now,Hope to hear from you.ikke ben ni zot

[StOneD.aS.FuK]

Haha it's not just Americans dear.

yes its sad how other countries try copy america, turn a random day into "valentines" day and expect people to buy fuckin chocolates and flowers jus to show how much you love someone...fuck that.


will you be my valentine? LOL ...thats gay.

[STDzRus]

yes its sad how other countries try copy america, turn a random day into "valentines" day and expect people to buy fuckin chocolates and flowers jus to show how much you love someone...fuck that.


will you be my valentine? LOL ...thats gay.

To me it is just another day, but it's not what I think, it's what society has played into the minds of women.

I treat every day like a "valentines" day..I'm a true gentlemen romantic and I treat my lady like a queen, because that's how she deserves to be treated.

But on this day, I treat her even more special, just to let her know I'm thinking about her, on this day.

[bedake]

how come no body yelled at any of you guys for disagreeing with valentines but i got my ass flamed haha

[STDzRus]

how come no body yelled at any of you guys for disagreeing with valentines but i got my ass flamed haha
Key words:

Respect and Presentation of the matter.

It's all about how you present yourself.

[highjinx]

i thought of a few things but iv decided im just gonna get her a FUCKING CONTRACT!:dance: :thumbsup:

[bedake]

Key words:

Respect and Presentation of the matter.

It's all about how you present yourself.


good point, I like presenting my opinons as if I am lecturing a 12 year old.

[Shelbay]

The holiday itself is really lame, downright stupid really (I'm not calling participants stupid, just the day).

1. I absoulately HATE this commercial propoganda that tells us "this is your chance to show someone how much you care". it's rediculous to depend on a corporate holiday for your "chance" to show them. if you love somebody, show them you love them, waiting for an artificial date is just silly.

and

2. Valentines day is just a corporate holiday. it's a means of brainwashing society into actually believing that you have to spend tons of money on chocolates and cards and restaraunts and all that crap. that's the only meaning there is to the day, for companies to make money, and I for one am not being sucked in.
Just curious how you feel about MLK day then?

[bedake]

Just curious how you feel about MLK day then?


MLK day differs greatly from valentines day, it is not a day based on buying people gifts, contributing to the disease infecting millions of americans daily that is Affluenza. Affluenza n. a painful, contagious, socially transmitted condition of overload, debt, anxiety and waste resulting from the dogged pursuit of more. read the book its great. It will open closed eyes. not that mine were closed when i read it, merely strengthened my convictions.

MLK day is a day celebrating a true american HEROE this man deserves all the respect and more. This man has done more for the world than 99% of its population.

[Shelbay]

MLK day differs greatly from valentines day, it is not a day based on buying people gifts, contributing to the disease infecting millions of americans daily that is Affluenza. Affluenza n. a painful, contagious, socially transmitted condition of overload, debt, anxiety and waste resulting from the dogged pursuit of more. read the book its great. It will open closed eyes. not that mine were closed when i read it, merely strengthened my convictions.

MLK day is a day celebrating a true american HEROE this man deserves all the respect and more. This man has done more for the world than 99% of its population.
I wasn't asking you....I admire MLK but saying he has done more for the world than Jonas Salk is a bit much for me. But thanks for your opinion. And FYI- Valentines is great!

[bedake]

jonas salk is only one man out of billions of normies, so he is in the 1% of heroes. but yeah id say he is equal to MLK
Jonas salk freed the world from a horrible disease
MLK freed black americans from Horrible Oppression, and carried the torch for civil rights across the world

[Shelbay]

jonas salk is only one man out of billions of normies, so he is in the 1% of heroes. but yeah id say he is equal to MLK
Jonas salk freed the world from a horrible disease
MLK freed black americans from Horrible Oppression, and carried the torch for civil rights across the world
As I said I admire MLK but he did not free blacks...they are still enslaved..just this time its of their own doing for the majority. Check the stats..black on black murder is the highest ...MLK stood for PEACE. Rosa and Coretta carried the torch imo...but this was about Valentines and once again thanks for your opinion.

[drinksmokesleep]

if i could afford it

Diamonds

[Reefer Rogue]

Yay 4 consumerism! *pukes*

[STDzRus]

WTF? Blacks are not still enslaved.

People in this country are treated equally, any unequal treatment IS NOT BY THE GOVERNMENT, except in cases of SandDoonies and Illegal Aliens.

[mrdevious]

Just curious how you feel about MLK day then?

I've never heard of MLK day:confused:

[bedake]

martin luther king jr day

[BizzleLuvin]

Yay 4 consumerism! *pukes*

you said it, man.

[robert42]

she should be happy to see my penis wrapped for once.

[Shelbay]

WTF? Blacks are not still enslaved.

People in this country are treated equally, any unequal treatment IS NOT BY THE GOVERNMENT, except in cases of SandDoonies and Illegal Aliens.
Name any positive new Icons besides Oprah then? Blacks will never triumph with affirmative action. No I don't believe we are treated EQUAL...if so..then why Affirmative action? Earn what you have...not a given at birth. Yes blacks for the majority are still enslaved....Total handouts..NO's prime example..some could have helped more but no...murder and mayhem among them. How many female black doctors,lawyers etc...have we lost because its a way of life to be pimped....And yes all races can be the same....