I hate guys sometimes

[BlazinHaze]

I have a lot of guy friends because I don't like hanging out with girls because they bitch and moan and care too much about how they look and whatever. My problem is that recently a lot of my guy friends have been trying to make our friendship turn into something more. I don't want that though.

So, my question is why can't guys handle just being friends with someone of the opposite sex?

[kuulbns]

Part of it may be because you are friends they think a lot of you. It actually makes sense in a way, date someone you like. I bet you're very pretty as well, so you are their top pick.

[mellow mood]

woha thats a hard question. its pretty true that guys tend to do that. maybe coz they are always horny when they are with an attractive girl. and maybe sometimes they think too they have a chance with the girl for some odd reason or whatever.

and coz a lot of them just want to have sex. like be friends, but fuck. = fuck friends.

lol

[beachguy in thongs]

Your friends are realizing that there's not too many girls who can top you, Blazin'.

[BlazinHaze]

Your friends are realizing that there's not too many girls who can top you, Blazin'.

aww, that's so sweet.

but seriously, a couple of my friends talk about marrying me one day

[beachguy in thongs]

Ok, then that's bigamy. Go for it. You like breaking the rules, I know you do!

[beachguy in thongs]

Really? A couple?

[BlazinHaze]

Ok, then that's bigamy. Go for it. You like breaking the rules, I know you do!

What?! :eek: Me?! What makes you think I like breaking the rules?

...haha :p

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, I know you like sleeping like an angel and it looks like you broke a couple of rules, that night of your picture.

[BlazinHaze]

If you consider getting ridiculously mangled and only remembering 1 out of 4 bars/clubs that I went to that night breaking rules, then yeah, I guess I have a lil rebel in me

[beachguy in thongs]

So, what were you saying now? About this dating service? Oh, yeah, that was the last thing, and if you go to 4 bars/clubs tomorrow night, you can add that to your list. Ya fake ID'er ;).

[BlazinHaze]

I'm a girl; I don't need a fake ID. ;)

[beachguy in thongs]

Don't you go to bars with bouncers?
or are you the one doing the bouncing... but seriously, unless they just let you in.

[BlazinHaze]

Don't you go to bars with bouncers?
or are you the one doing the bouncing... but seriously, unless they just let you in.

In case you didn't know:

Most bouncers are guys.
Most guys like girls.
I am a girl.

Therefore, bouncers like me.

[beachguy in thongs]

When there's other people in line they won't just let you in and ID everyone else...are you that pretty?

[BlazinHaze]

When there's other people in line they won't just let you in and ID everyone else...are you that pretty?

Well I used to live in South Carolina with my sisters and we knew everyone at every bar, dance club, and strip club. My sisters and I were known as the "Triple Threat".

[beachguy in thongs]

How old are your sisters?
I guess in South Carolina, it's kind of rural. I knew a friend who was born there. Seemed like he had a rural mentality. And it's cool, very cool, to know that you're underage going to a strip club, how many girls go, well, wait, I guess you wouldn't be under age. But, still that's awesome.

[BlazinHaze]

How old are your sisters?
I guess in South Carolina, it's kind of rural. I knew a friend who was born there. Seemed like he had a rural mentality. And it's cool, very cool, to know that you're underage going to a strip club, how many girls go, well, wait, I guess you wouldn't be under age. But, still that's awesome.

Are you calling me country, cause if you are I might have to knock you out, cause I'm from Philly.

But, anyway, yeah we go to strip clubs and party. My sisters are 23 and 25.

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, I know you're from Philly, remember that's where my best friend moved to? In a different thread. I couldn't share experiences like that, my brother and sister are 9 and 7 years older than me, respectively, and they were away at college when I started drinking.

[BlazinHaze]

Yeah I'm really glad that my sisters and I can chill like friends. I mean, we definitely have our "sister" moments; like when all 3 of us got in a huge brawl and it took 5 guys to break us up.

But, anyway, I have another guy question:

Why do some guys find it necessary to bribe girls to hang out?

A little while ago this guy I don't know that well called me and I asked him if he wanted to chill and he was like, "yeah, I just got some weed and I think I was meant to smoke with you tonight." I was like "you don't have to bribe me, I would've wanted to chill regardless."

I find myself in that situation often and I don't like it.

[beachguy in thongs]

I think he may have just brought the weed up for something to say. He did say that after you asked him to hang out, right?

[BlazinHaze]

I think he may have just brought the weed up for something to say. He did say that after you asked him to hang out, right?

Yeah I asked him to chill first, but I still think it's weird when a guy acts like it's destiny for him to smoke me out.

[beachguy in thongs]

It sounds funny, I think no matter what kind of relationship you have with him, weed will be more important. He sounds like a funny guy, in a good way, like a guy I knew.

[BlazinHaze]

It sounds funny, I think no matter what kind of relationship you have with him, weed will be more important. He sounds like a funny guy, in a good way, like a guy I knew.

I hope so because I need a new NICE guy in my life. Especially after the last douch-bag that stopped talking to me in order to start dating a friend of mine (well not a friend anymore), plus she's 17 and he's 23. Can anyone say pedophile?

[beachguy in thongs]

Oh, c'mon, that's not bad. I know a guy who dated a 16 year old whe he was 36, and I must believe she was hot. I have a case of Yuengling (America's Oldest Brewery), I'll crack it now, start drinking, .......can anyone say Asshole?

[BlazinHaze]

Oh, c'mon, that's not bad. I know a guy who dated a 16 year old whe he was 36, and I must believe she was hot. I have a case of Yuengling (America's Oldest Brewery), I'll crack it now, start drinking, .......can anyone say Asshole?

SOOOOOOOOOO JEALOUS, I LOVE YUENGLING!!!! I'm stuck drinking Icehouse tonight :mad:

[Mojavpa]

I have a lot of guy friends because I don't like hanging out with girls because they bitch and moan and care too much about how they look and whatever. My problem is that recently a lot of my guy friends have been trying to make our friendship turn into something more. I don't want that though.

So, my question is why can't guys handle just being friends with someone of the opposite sex?

You should become friends with gay guys :)

[beachguy in thongs]

I don't really like that stuff. But I'm stuck in a worthless relationship tonight. SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSo jealous. I LOVE YUENGLING, also, and bourbon and cokes, I'm drinking alone. ;( . But I have you, virtually.

[beachguy in thongs]

Don't know where my head was, must've taken too big of a swig. If you get gay friends, you'll never have to cook again.

[BlazinHaze]

You should become friends with gay guys :)

I had a couple gay guy friends but they acted just like the girls I don't like hanging out with. I'd rather chill with my lesbian friends.

[nomadherbman]

I have a lot of guy friends because I don't like hanging out with girls because they bitch and moan and care too much about how they look and whatever. My problem is that recently a lot of my guy friends have been trying to make our friendship turn into something more. I don't want that though.

So, my question is why can't guys handle just being friends with someone of the opposite sex?

thats a blessing in disguise
sex with no strings attached

[Mojavpa]

Don't know where my head was, must've taken too big of a swig. If you get gay friends, you'll never have to cook again.

I like being friends with lesbians because

a)there is no way we'll ever like the same person. I'm into guys and they're into girls

b) there is no way one of us will start developing feelings for the other

c) lesbians are chill, they're not bitchy like straight girls but not insensitive and dumb like straight guys.

[beachguy in thongs]

Are you going to college, Blazin'?

I've pictured you with gay guy friends that you've tossed aside, funny, but I would've said it.

[beachguy in thongs]

Really, somebody should start a drinking game thread.

[BlazinHaze]

I like being friends with lesbians because

a)there is no way we'll ever like the same person. I'm into guys and they're into girls

b) there is no way one of us will start developing feelings for the other

c) lesbians are chill, they're not bitchy like straight girls but not insensitive and dumb like straight guys.

So fuckin true!!

[BlazinHaze]

Are you going to college, Blazin'?

I've pictured you with gay guy friends that you've tossed aside, funny, but I would've said it.

Yeah I go to the oh so awesome forsyth tech in good ole winston-salem, NC

[beachguy in thongs]

For two or four years?

[BlazinHaze]

I'm only goin here til January, then I'm hoping to go to UNC Charlotte maybe

[beachguy in thongs]

Did you graduate in '04? I don't know much about UNC Charlotte, or inland N.C. for that matter.

[BlazinHaze]

No I'm supposed to be '05, but I'm finishing my last credits at Fo Tech because I got kicked out of my high schools a couple months before graduation for some bullshit.

[beachguy in thongs]

Okay, you sound interesting, keep speaking, please.

[beachguy in thongs]

It's good to hear that you're shooting for the stars, though.

[BlazinHaze]

I missed 60 out of 90 days in the first semester of my senior year. Then they told me if I missed one more class I would be put in permanent ALC, which is a trailor in the corner of the campus where all the wierd, crazy people are. So I said well fuck that I'm not coming tomorrow. So they told me not to come back at all. Then I went to an alternative HS called Middle College and got kicked out for not going, got myself back in (with my powers of persuasion), and proceeded to get kicked out again for not going.

Not as bad-ass as you thought is it?

[beachguy in thongs]

Sounds so familiar. The year after I graduated they started giving detention for late's and skip's. It sounds like a situation that took up a lot of your time. So, what are your plans, now?

[BlazinHaze]

Sounds so familiar. The year after I graduated they started giving detention for late's and skip's. It souns like a situation that took up a lot of your time. So, what are your plans, now?

I'll be done with this BS in about 2 weeks then I'm out of school til January. Other than that I'm just having a hell of a time.

[beachguy in thongs]

Sounds, cool, are you gonna go on Fall Break?

[BlazinHaze]

I'm taking about 3 months off for my break, it'll be fun. Come to the chatroom.

[beachguy in thongs]

What name are you?

[beachguy in thongs]

Okay, I went there and I don't see you.

[BlazinHaze]

sorry had to leave, but I'm back now for a minute, but not in the chatroom

[beachguy in thongs]

okay, while you're back for a minute, How long does it take to get to VA Beach, you should come for a weekend or something while you're on your break.

[beachguy in thongs]

huh? Am I drunk already?

[DuMpTrUcK]

........ go beach guy!

[GHoSToKeR]

How come beachguy manages to turn every thread into a one and one conversation? lol :D

[beachguy in thongs]

How come beachguy manages to turn every thread into a one and one conversation? lol :D

Are you in???

[moeburn]

guys and girls can't be friends, duh.

[BlazinHaze]

guys and girls can't be friends, duh.

Guys and girls could easily be friends if guys weren't so horny and immature.

[beachguy in thongs]

Guys and girls could easily be friends if guys weren't so horny and immature.

We're immature when horny.

[BlazinHaze]

We're immature when horny.

and that's all the time

[beachguy in thongs]

No, I don't get horny when I'm chilling with a cat! I mean, a feline.

[BlazinHaze]

No, I don't get horny when I'm chilling with a cat! I mean, a feline.

But some guys probably do...

[beachguy in thongs]

That's chickens and hens.

[Euphoric]

and that's all the time

nuffin wrong with that :p

[moeburn]

Oh of course there are exceptions to the rule that guys and girls can't be friends, there are 3 exceptions:

1) One of you is gay
2) One of you is fugly
3) One of you already has a much more attractive partner.

[Ganj]

I have a lot of guy friends because I don't like hanging out with girls because they bitch and moan and care too much about how they look and whatever. My problem is that recently a lot of my guy friends have been trying to make our friendship turn into something more. I don't want that though.

So, my question is why can't guys handle just being friends with someone of the opposite sex?


in order to be in a relationship it is required that the two be friends first.

[TonyD]

It's human nature, you should be flattered.

[BlazinHaze]

It's human nature, you should be flattered.

I just hate having to worry about my guy friends trying to get with me and shit or if I am "leading them on". It sucks that we all can't just chill without sexual tension.

[Ganj]

well your just so damn photogenic! i can't imagine how beautiful you are in person. not to mention, curvacious.

[beachguy in thongs]

I just hate having to worry about my guy friends trying to get with me and shit or if I am "leading them on". It sucks that we all can't just chill without sexual tension.

That's why you need friends like me, my people have had their fun in the pants, I mean, sun, it's only clear sailing from here on out!

My people have neglected me by getting married. :(

[BlazinHaze]

well your just so damn photogenic! i can't imagine how beautiful you are in person. not to mention, curvacious.


haha thanks

[firsttimefarmer]

I have a lot of guy friends because I don't like hanging out with girls because they bitch and moan and care too much about how they look and whatever. My problem is that recently a lot of my guy friends have been trying to make our friendship turn into something more. I don't want that though.

So, my question is why can't guys handle just being friends with someone of the opposite sex?

A lot of guys need to validate themselves thru their dick, in other words they wan to prove their manliness to you by shagging you, its probably the guys who score the least( tho maybe not) theres also the fact that men think with our dicks, we can't help it, its part of our nature. Have you never even once considered going to bed withone of these guys? Don't, Its very hard to maintain a friendship after sex.

[BlazinHaze]

A lot of guys need to validate themselves thru their dick, in other words they wan to prove their manliness to you by shagging you, its probably the guys who score the least( tho maybe not) theres also the fact that men think with our dicks, we can't help it, its part of our nature. Have you never even once considered going to bed withone of these guys? Don't, Its very hard to maintain a friendship after sex.

I've definitely considered it with a couple of them, but didn't act on it simply because I knew it would make things weird. Plus, then that guy would want that to happen all the time.