Stupid Fucking Alcoholic Parents.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Okay well i need to vent because im extremely fucking angry right now.
If you dont care about any of this shit, DONT FUCKING POST, i dont need your stupid ass comments saying, "Stop talking about sasha!, Who cares!?".
So please only respond if its actually going to be a response. Thanks.


Okay well my gf has been having some problems and she needs to go to the doctors. So about 2-3 weeks ago she asked her mom to take her to the doctor. Her mom told her she either could go to the E.R. or she had to wait till next tuesday, so she just waited till next tuesday. So she goes to the appt, its not evne fucking at the doctors its at planned parenthood, because of one of the symptoms her mom swears she must have some diease.

So she went and couldnt pee in the cup so she didnt get tested, and shes going back when she starts her period so she can get the BC shot. So now her mom wont take her to the doctors till this is over. Well i find out now things are worse then i thought they were, and the problem is happening again. Both of her parents are alcoholics,her mom is the one whos neglecting to take her and i dont think shes asked her dad. Im just so fucking furious that her mom wont fucking believe her own daughter enough just to take her to the doctors. And so im fucking worried and so i said i just want my grandma to take you to the E.R. because its never going to get done, and she says my mom wouldn't like me going to the E.R. becuase there'd be a big bill.
Oh did i forget to mention the own two boats?(and these arent small little boats). Her mom cant fucking pay a bill for her health but she can buy two fucking boats? She says her mom's always been like this, shes only been to the dentist like 3 times in her life because her mom doesnt want to pay the bills, and shes gone to the doctor a few times, but probably not everytime she needed too. It just fucking enrages me, i care about her and love her sooo much. and i cant even fucking do anything. And if this matters the thing we think she may have is a bladder or kidney infection. <<< i dont know for sure but i think if not taken care of those could get serious.

So im just fucking angry i dont knwo what to do, We are going out to dinner soon tonight with my grandma, then tomrw we are suppose to be going on the boat(with her parents and my grandma) and then sunday is my grandmas B-day. I dont want to ask her to take sasha tonight because fuck this is like the whole weekend, but at the same time i dont want sasha to go another weekend without being checked out. God i need a fucking punching bag.

Any help appriciated.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Well im going to hit the mini-bong and then its time for china king buffet, guess i'll read the posts when i get back.

[marylanddude2005]

The gf needs to make this decision, bro. Your opinion counts, but she's the one who has to live (or die) with the consequences.

Just a vote against pushing too hard. I hope she feels better and it all works out. (BTW this is why I smoke and don't drink, I hate alcoholics.)

[FunkyMonkey]

Dude, you obviously have more concern for her than her parents.
I dont know about where you live but here we just phone the dr and make an appointment. Teens dont need their parents to accompany them.
We also have a phone hotline called telehealth that is staffed 24 hrs by nurses who will assess a condition and determine if a dr is warranted or an er trip they also suggest home remedies until a dr can be seen..
Not every place is as fortunate to have these services though.
If you do, use it. If not, talk to your grandma about it. She can give you another perspective and I assume you trust her judgement. If you decide to wait till monday to see a doc, phone the appointment in yourself. Then, have her tell her parents she has an appointment and would like them to come. If they refuse go without them.
If they agree great. Either way they will have gotten a wake up call from their daughter that she isnt going to neglect her health just because they are.
If her parents wont take the responsibility on it is her responsibility to do it herself.
If you all decide to go to the er do the same thing. Offer her parents a chance to come and support her concerns. Its up to them if they go or not but they cant stop her from taking care of her own body.

I need to stress though that the er is for emergencies and if it can wait...wait. If not...get going.
I hope it all works out good.
Peace.

[Canadabis]

Alcoholics are teh filth of hte earth.
They dont wait for the booze, but the dentist, hte doctor you name it, they would fuck you for if your competing with booze for attention.
Ive only been to the dentist a few times in my life too, least the health is free here.
Bladder infection=bad
Difficulty peeing; having lots of hard sex :o =bladder infection
Waiting for assholes for anything you need=Your own damn fault

The bill comes AFTER teh check up anyways ^^
Bladder infection can cause reproductive failures later in life, or the inability to have children, its not "worth" waiting.


And good boy for taking your grandma out to dinner :) Love them mommas and granmas, they always love you

[MrsDarkIdol]

It's just unbelievable some of the things parents do or don't do to their children.

You mentioned that she may have a kidney or urinary tract infection(UTI).
The UTI is very common for women to get and are EXTREMELY painful.
She should drink a gallon of cranberry juice or more through out the day. Basically as much as she can. And if that's the problem her pain will go away because the cranberry juice will kill the infection. Eating asparagus will also help with her kiddneys and or a UTI.
However if it is a serious kidney infection she will end up having to go the E.R.
If her pain is in her lower side it is probably kidneys.
However if it's intense pain in her abdomen it also could be apendix. :(
What are her symptoms?
Try looking online for a diagnosis and look for natural cures, more then likely she can take care of it without paying dearly for it.

Hopes this helps!
Best of Luck

[MrsDarkIdol]

Also I forgot to tell you to have her drink as much water as she can as well.
Those three things will clean/flush her system out, including the kidneys.
And she should continue drinking the juice, water, and eating asparagus.
Get juice that has 27% cranberry juice in it. That is the highest concentration you can get from the grocery store.
Dehydration often cause UTI's

[putrid retch]

Yeah dude, you don't need anyone's permission to get some health care. Just walk into the ER, tell them the problem & they'll send the bill to her drunken-ass folks. She'll get all fixed-up healthwise & the parents will be held accountable.
At least, that's the way in the USA...I haven't the slightest idea about Canada's health-care system.

[MrsDarkIdol]

Doesn't Canada have healthcare for all? Never the less, yeah, the parents would get stuck with any charges if a minor.

[kimchibanana]

i think her mom is a hardcore jew

[FunkyMonkey]

Doesn't Canada have healthcare for all? Never the less, yeah, the parents would get stuck with any charges if a minor.


Yup we do. And that telehealth line I mentioned. But he's in the US.

[MrsDarkIdol]

oh okay
oops :o

[MrsDarkIdol]

It's insane that the US doesn't have healthcare coverage

[FunkyMonkey]

Yes I agree. Personal health care should be free for everyone on the planet.
When I become supreme ruler I will make that the third thing on my agenda, you have my word. ;)

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Hey guys well its 12:17am now(left around 8:15 earlier) and we are home. Anyways we went to china king buffet, ate a great meal and talked to my grandma about it. So we are leaving the place and sashas had to pee like 5 times by now, so we call my mom(who use to have kidney/bladder infections all the time) and ask if she has any medicine for it. Luckly she does so we go over there. We spend the rest of the time up until now over there just talking and sasha drinking lots of cranberry juice, AND WATER. It was pretty cool actaully because now sasha feels better and she has two more of the pills. It was weird to just sit there and talk to my mom. Anyways so we are waitin until 8am tomrw morning to go to the urgent care at rockwood clinic(instead of the E.R.) Because shes going to be able to last through tonight. Thanks to everyone who responded!!

[FunkyMonkey]

Good to hear there is a plan in place and action taken already.
She is fortunate to have you by her side and your family to back you and her like her own family should be doing. She's gotta be feelin the love .

peace

[Lily420]

:D Awwww, you got one hell of a girl!!!! Shes so cute, smart, and she loves loves loves you!

Glad shes feeling better, i hope eveything goes well between her and her parents. Sounds like her parents need planned parenthood more than she does.

[robert42]

Glad shes feelign better keep us posted :)

[beachguy in thongs]

If you're ever around her mother, or father, keep bringing up your teeth and your girlfriend's teeth. Say like, "If it wasn't for my mother bringing me to the dentist, that tooth would've infected your daughter with an incurable gum disease that goes airborne when you sleep and creeps into parents' rooms."

[ImStonedNILikeIt]

I hope everything goes well. I wish you both the best of luck!:)

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Okay well we went to the doctors,like 9:30am or so. There was no Major detectable infection, but she does have all the symptoms. So they gave her some stuff for the burning and antiobiotcs. We are going on the boat(leaving in an hour or so). Also she got her STD test there, but gotta wait a few days for the results on that. So anyways yeah.... lol thats the update.

[Melton420]

sry bout that man. we feel for ya ... keeep us updated... peace!

[beachguy in thongs]

Good Luck and may the rain stop in the Great Northwest.

[carl333]

First of all spokane in in the desert.It is located in Eastern Wa.Not
"the great northwest"
Second of all this one is easy,if this is your girl then why don't you take her to the dr.? Why reley on anyone else?why do you scream 'jew'?

[daZenfmeister]

Dude Cam, rock on. I'm glad your girl is doing okay. Just know: I love you both. and also im so hungover that im having trouble walking. Hope everything works out for you bro. My girlfriend just got a UTI too and it scared the shit outta me, she called me up at fucking 3:00 am and told me she just got out of the ER cause she started convulsing and passed out. Some scary shit I'm glad you caught this early. Keep her comforted, buy her a nice present, make her feel special now bro.

[beachguy in thongs]

It rains more in New York or Boston then it does in Seattle.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

First of all spokane in in the desert.It is located in Eastern Wa.Not
"the great northwest"
Second of all this one is easy,if this is your girl then why don't you take her to the dr.? Why reley on anyone else?why do you scream 'jew'?

First off, spokane is not "in in" the desert, its a forest you dumbass.
Second, i dont have a car, how the fuck do you get to the hospital late at night without a car? Also i wasnt sure if you needed an insurance card, and i scream jew because i can. :D