Stupid Fucking Alcoholic Parents.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Okay well i need to vent because im extremely fucking angry right now.
If you dont care about any of this shit, DONT FUCKING POST, i dont need your stupid ass comments saying, "Stop talking about sasha!, Who cares!?".
So please only respond if its actually going to be a response. Thanks.


Okay well my gf has been having some problems and she needs to go to the doctors. So about 2-3 weeks ago she asked her mom to take her to the doctor. Her mom told her she either could go to the E.R. or she had to wait till next tuesday, so she just waited till next tuesday. So she goes to the appt, its not evne fucking at the doctors its at planned parenthood, because of one of the symptoms her mom swears she must have some diease.

So she went and couldnt pee in the cup so she didnt get tested, and shes going back when she starts her period so she can get the BC shot. So now her mom wont take her to the doctors till this is over. Well i find out now things are worse then i thought they were, and the problem is happening again. Both of her parents are alcoholics,her mom is the one whos neglecting to take her and i dont think shes asked her dad. Im just so fucking furious that her mom wont fucking believe her own daughter enough just to take her to the doctors. And so im fucking worried and so i said i just want my grandma to take you to the E.R. because its never going to get done, and she says my mom wouldn't like me going to the E.R. becuase there'd be a big bill.
Oh did i forget to mention the own two boats?(and these arent small little boats). Her mom cant fucking pay a bill for her health but she can buy two fucking boats? She says her mom's always been like this, shes only been to the dentist like 3 times in her life because her mom doesnt want to pay the bills, and shes gone to the doctor a few times, but probably not everytime she needed too. It just fucking enrages me, i care about her and love her sooo much. and i cant even fucking do anything. And if this matters the thing we think she may have is a bladder or kidney infection. <<< i dont know for sure but i think if not taken care of those could get serious.

So im just fucking angry i dont knwo what to do, We are going out to dinner soon tonight with my grandma, then tomrw we are suppose to be going on the boat(with her parents and my grandma) and then sunday is my grandmas B-day. I dont want to ask her to take sasha tonight because fuck this is like the whole weekend, but at the same time i dont want sasha to go another weekend without being checked out. God i need a fucking punching bag.

Any help appriciated.

sToNeDpEnGuIn420 Reviewed by sToNeDpEnGuIn420 on 08-27-2005. Stupid Fucking Alcoholic Parents. Okay well i need to vent because im extremely fucking angry right now. If you dont care about any of this shit, DONT FUCKING POST, i dont need your stupid ass comments saying, "Stop talking about sasha!, Who cares!?". So please only respond if its actually going to be a response. Thanks. Okay well my gf has been having some problems and she needs to go to the doctors. So about 2-3 weeks ago she asked her mom to take her to the doctor. Her mom told her she either could go to the E.R. or Rating: 5

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Well im going to hit the mini-bong and then its time for china king buffet, guess i'll read the posts when i get back.

[marylanddude2005]

The gf needs to make this decision, bro. Your opinion counts, but she's the one who has to live (or die) with the consequences.

Just a vote against pushing too hard. I hope she feels better and it all works out. (BTW this is why I smoke and don't drink, I hate alcoholics.)

[FunkyMonkey]

Dude, you obviously have more concern for her than her parents.
I dont know about where you live but here we just phone the dr and make an appointment. Teens dont need their parents to accompany them.
We also have a phone hotline called telehealth that is staffed 24 hrs by nurses who will assess a condition and determine if a dr is warranted or an er trip they also suggest home remedies until a dr can be seen..
Not every place is as fortunate to have these services though.
If you do, use it. If not, talk to your grandma about it. She can give you another perspective and I assume you trust her judgement. If you decide to wait till monday to see a doc, phone the appointment in yourself. Then, have her tell her parents she has an appointment and would like them to come. If they refuse go without them.
If they agree great. Either way they will have gotten a wake up call from their daughter that she isnt going to neglect her health just because they are.
If her parents wont take the responsibility on it is her responsibility to do it herself.
If you all decide to go to the er do the same thing. Offer her parents a chance to come and support her concerns. Its up to them if they go or not but they cant stop her from taking care of her own body.

I need to stress though that the er is for emergencies and if it can wait...wait. If not...get going.
I hope it all works out good.
Peace.

[Canadabis]

Alcoholics are teh filth of hte earth.
They dont wait for the booze, but the dentist, hte doctor you name it, they would fuck you for if your competing with booze for attention.
Ive only been to the dentist a few times in my life too, least the health is free here.
Bladder infection=bad
Difficulty peeing; having lots of hard sex =bladder infection
Waiting for assholes for anything you need=Your own damn fault

The bill comes AFTER teh check up anyways ^^
Bladder infection can cause reproductive failures later in life, or the inability to have children, its not "worth" waiting.


And good boy for taking your grandma out to dinner Love them mommas and granmas, they always love you

[MrsDarkIdol]

It's just unbelievable some of the things parents do or don't do to their children.

You mentioned that she may have a kidney or urinary tract infection(UTI).
The UTI is very common for women to get and are EXTREMELY painful.
She should drink a gallon of cranberry juice or more through out the day. Basically as much as she can. And if that's the problem her pain will go away because the cranberry juice will kill the infection. Eating asparagus will also help with her kiddneys and or a UTI.
However if it is a serious kidney infection she will end up having to go the E.R.
If her pain is in her lower side it is probably kidneys.
However if it's intense pain in her abdomen it also could be apendix.
What are her symptoms?
Try looking online for a diagnosis and look for natural cures, more then likely she can take care of it without paying dearly for it.

Hopes this helps!
Best of Luck

[MrsDarkIdol]

Also I forgot to tell you to have her drink as much water as she can as well.
Those three things will clean/flush her system out, including the kidneys.
And she should continue drinking the juice, water, and eating asparagus.
Get juice that has 27% cranberry juice in it. That is the highest concentration you can get from the grocery store.
Dehydration often cause UTI's

[putrid retch]

Yeah dude, you don't need anyone's permission to get some health care. Just walk into the ER, tell them the problem & they'll send the bill to her drunken-ass folks. She'll get all fixed-up healthwise & the parents will be held accountable.
At least, that's the way in the USA...I haven't the slightest idea about Canada's health-care system.

[MrsDarkIdol]

Doesn't Canada have healthcare for all? Never the less, yeah, the parents would get stuck with any charges if a minor.

[kimchibanana]

i think her mom is a hardcore jew