Need MORE relationship help.......

[daZenfmeister]

Cause I know you all love hearing about my probs SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much. heh. Okay well there is this dude in my Chemisry class who is ALWAYS trying to hit on my g/f now his name is Sean or Shawn or something and so like yesterday my g/f said that he pointed at her and told one of his friends that she was super fine! I havn't actually seen any of this so he's really good at doing it when I'm not looking and not listening. So my g/f keeps telling me how much she doesn't like it. So how do I approach this guy who is alot stronger (shorter but ALOT bulkier than me) and in wrestling? Like i said i cant kick his ass w/o help but it makes me so mad that hes fuckin with my g/f. She says she hates it and wants me to do something about it. Next time he does it im just going to tell him "Look, you need to stop flirting with my g/f cause she doesn't like it!"



Any other ideas of what I should do?

[drivebyphilosopher]

Confidence is key. Stare him in the eye, dont shake, dont make agressive movements, but stand your ground, and tell him how you don't want him doing that anymore.

Or you could just get some tough buddies to come along with you.

[Dick Justice]

Just shoot him! With a gun!

[mellowman420]

hey the school years almost over. i ain't a bitch but flirting is harmless. i think your girlfirend should say something with you so he knows he is shut down. if that don't work i agree shot him!

[BluntManAndChronic]

pop a cap in his ass definatly. no man just wen he does it again go up there and be firm about it and tell him to fuck off ur girl if u say that it will most likely catch him off guard and he should stop. but it wuld be a lot more fun to wipe out a 9 and shoot his fuckin dick off i hate it wen guys try and steal ur girl specially wen shes fine.

[cotch and bun]

all you've got to remember is that your g/f is on ur side, so if he's a dick, she'll like him even less and so the flirting will matter less as well!

[Caruso329]

My stepdad gave me some good advice for life the other night, I'll share it with you.

"Just remember that if you have a pretty girl as a girlfriend or wife or whatever, everyone else is going to want her too, so its best to not let it bother you."

I went through that with my ex-girlfriend, every fucking guy looked at her or flirted with her and I'm a jealous guy who let it get to me. If she really is fine, you best get use to it and not let it bother you. There's nothing wrong with a guy looking at a girl or talking to her so you can't give him shit for that really..but, I'm not saying you can't kick his ass if he starts being mean or derogatory towards her. ;)

[Reefer Rogue]

Just talk to the guy. Say this: "Hey what's up dude? My girlfriend told me you've been flirting with her and i'd appreciate it if you would please stop." If he doesn't respond to the nice approach and still continues then get people to beat his ass lol.

[EverydayJunglist]

Kill him with kindness..........and then with a gun like dick suggested :)

[ezjim]

this is the type of problem that can be best solved with a shovel and a baseball bat or about 2000 mics of acid in this jock assholes gatorade if you cant beat his ass dose him so hard that you will turn his brain into a turnip good luck and dont back down from this shit stain even if you take a beating at least ya can say you tried and if all else fails use the shovel

[supersonicchronic]

this is the type of problem that can be best solved with a shovel and a baseball bat or about 2000 mics of acid in this jock assholes gatorade if you cant beat his ass dose him so hard that you will turn his brain into a turnip good luck and dont back down from this shit stain even if you take a beating at least ya can say you tried and if all else fails use the shovel

Thats pretty fucked up, I was about to write "take a sheet of acid, get it wet, and stick it on the back of his neck, then I looked up and you had the 2,000 hits in the gatorade. Me and ezjim are on the same page for this one.

[jadeius]

me & my husband look at porn together
we don't bring other people in the relationship or anything, just something to keep it going
people are gonna look, god gave us eyes for just that reason
as for him saying stuff, i think that if your girlfriend keeps on bringing it up then she's probably instigating the whole situation and trying to make you jealous
if you know she's faithful then you don't have anything to worry about anyways. but i would personally be weary of her if she keeps bringing it up, chances are she's enjoying the flirting if she won't shut up about it...if someone flirts with me, i just forget about it and don't even bring it up because i REALIZE that it's just gonna make my man jealous for no reason...the only time i ever bring it up is if i thought the guy was hot....

she either feels really threatened by his actions or she's eatin it up...

[jadeius]

don't get someone else to do your fighting, you'll look like a pussy

if you can't do it yourself, then don't resort to it

[daZenfmeister]

well no offense but could very easily dispose of this dude I've got some pretty fucked up friends that would love to help me out if they get to kick some ass. But if I wanted to I could probably beat his ass down pretty quick, after some PCP I'm sure he'd be on the ass side of an ass whoppin. But I hate resorting to drugs to salve my prob's.

[Edd]

its not about how big you are its about how you fight, you can still be pretty skinny like me (6foot and 10 stone) and still come up tops in a fight against much bigger people, if you are skinner and lighter than him you should be faster than him use this to your advantage ;)

[jadeius]

I hate resorting to drugs to salve my prob's.

you're already talking about resorting to violence in the first place, i don't think anyone should ever be violent but that's just my opinion saved for a perfect world where nothing bad ever happens

make sure it's pcp and not methamphetamine though, meth will make him mean as hell!