Hurting my girlfriend

[OreO]

alright so me and my girl have been gettin it on right but i always hurt her(vagina) and i dunno what im doing. I thought cause i was doin it too hard so i kept it slow and gentle but it still hurt her. Then i thought mayb theres not enough lube BUT she doesnt need it shes wet everytime im in her and its sliding with ease, so i dont know whats wrong i dont know any1 with this problem what is it? what should i do????

[slipknotpsycho]

dude it can stilll hurt for a chic even after they aren't a virgin anymore...it still hurts my wife when i stick it in her sometimes.....try like eating her out for an extended period of time...you know get her to the part where she's begging to have you inside of her...it usually won't hurt after that...or if it does she's just too horny to care

[OreO]

i already do that...foreplay is always on the agenda

[Cheery Cherry]

Sex shouldn't hurt all the time. I would insist on her seeing a doctor. She may have some problems that she may regret ignoring. I would also tell her to tell the doctor about how it hurts to have sex. My first thought was lubrication, but if you say you practice foreplay and she is wet everytime, then the next step should be to make an appointment with her doctor.

Good luck!

[DonnieDarko]

Have her ask her OBGYN (female plumbing doctor). My wife had similiar problems, and doc said that she had a tipped uteris, and it ultimatlely got fixed when she had kids.

No guy can know about all of the complexities of the female anatomy. It took me years to find things, and I still don't know where everything is. LOL

Seriously, let her talk to her doctor about this. No need to struggle unnecessarily.

A couple of Qs to think about (but don't need to answer here, cuz some things are private).


1) Ask her if she has ever had pain-free sex with anyone else.
2) Have you had sex with other gals without them experiencing pain.

[DonnieDarko]

Looks like I agree w/Cheery ..... I was composing while she was posting reply. Always listen to females in this area. They know their body better than we do. The important thing is not to be embarassed about asking questions.

[fuzzyblue]

i too am with Cheery on this one

[daZenfmeister]

Sucks for your girl man, maybe you're just too big. I wonder if you could find a place that offers penis reduction surgery.

[Reefer Rogue]

Up the poop shute.

[mellow mood]

2 options:

her pussy is too tight

or



your dick is too big

[professer evil]

just penetrate her for a few minutes with a rigid object that is twice as fat as ur purple headed warrior,then wen u slide ur cock inside her she wont feel anything at all,, she probly hasnt had much sex with other people so take it easy with her at the start

[Euphoric]

be gentle.
girls are like those kleenexes with lotion, exspensive and fragile (and moisturizing!)

[Stedric]

be gentle.
girls are like those kleenexes with lotion, exspensive and fragile (and moisturizing!)
Not to mention I wipe my mucus on them.

Kidding, of course. Be gentle with her and try to make sure you get her as wet as possible beforehand. Go down and her before you have sex and after a while of just playing with her with your tongue, stick a finger in and start sucking on her clit. That usually gets them plenty wet. I love going down my girlfriend, so I hope you enjoy it too.

[Hektik]

I've had the same thing with some chicks in my days. some girls just have small holes. lol but what reefer said made me laugh so take his advice. Use the poop shute :p

[muncheemama]

Not to mention I wipe my mucus on them.

Kidding, of course. Be gentle with her and try to make sure you get her as wet as possible beforehand. Go down and her before you have sex and after a while of just playing with her with your tongue, stick a finger in and start sucking on her clit. That usually gets them plenty wet. I love going down my girlfriend, so I hope you enjoy it too.
you should write books....

[rastabill89]

yea u can be the male version of Dr. Ruth ;)

[OreO]

Not to mention I wipe my mucus on them.

Kidding, of course. Be gentle with her and try to make sure you get her as wet as possible beforehand. Go down and her before you have sex and after a while of just playing with her with your tongue, stick a finger in and start sucking on her clit. That usually gets them plenty wet. I love going down my girlfriend, so I hope you enjoy it too.

i do this exactley...i 2 love eating women out...there is nothing wrong with it as long as they keep it clean..

[mlleyeuxbleus]

Definitely have her see a doctor to rule out anything wrong, or at least get some insight on why it's so painful. It sounds like you're already on the right track with the foreplay (yay you!). Also, it might help to know *where* she hurts... if you're long, you could be bangin' into her cervix, so ask if that's where it hurts, & maybe try not to bottom out so much if that's the trouble. A pillow under her hips (in mish) may help tilt her a lil bit, which may make it easier.

[Stedric]

yea u can be the male version of Dr. Ruth ;)
That brings up weird mental images. :D

[NoosaHeads]

i do this exactley...i 2 love eating women out...there is nothing wrong with it as long as they keep it clean..


Just Make sure you ask wich way she wipes her ass first.;)

[Cheery Cherry]

Just Make sure you ask wich way she wipes her ass first.;)

ROFLMAO...although I have never had anyone ask me that, I would laugh hysterically if someone did... :D

[muncheemama]

Just Make sure you ask wich way she wipes her ass first.;)
yucky.... :eek:

[henrypj]

stedric is that you in your avatar?