Hurting my girlfriend

[OreO]

alright so me and my girl have been gettin it on right but i always hurt her(vagina) and i dunno what im doing. I thought cause i was doin it too hard so i kept it slow and gentle but it still hurt her. Then i thought mayb theres not enough lube BUT she doesnt need it shes wet everytime im in her and its sliding with ease, so i dont know whats wrong i dont know any1 with this problem what is it? what should i do????

OreO Reviewed by OreO on 05-22-2005. Hurting my girlfriend alright so me and my girl have been gettin it on right but i always hurt her(vagina) and i dunno what im doing. I thought cause i was doin it too hard so i kept it slow and gentle but it still hurt her. Then i thought mayb theres not enough lube BUT she doesnt need it shes wet everytime im in her and its sliding with ease, so i dont know whats wrong i dont know any1 with this problem what is it? what should i do???? Rating: 5

[slipknotpsycho]

dude it can stilll hurt for a chic even after they aren't a virgin anymore...it still hurts my wife when i stick it in her sometimes.....try like eating her out for an extended period of time...you know get her to the part where she's begging to have you inside of her...it usually won't hurt after that...or if it does she's just too horny to care

[OreO]

i already do that...foreplay is always on the agenda

[Cheery Cherry]

Sex shouldn't hurt all the time. I would insist on her seeing a doctor. She may have some problems that she may regret ignoring. I would also tell her to tell the doctor about how it hurts to have sex. My first thought was lubrication, but if you say you practice foreplay and she is wet everytime, then the next step should be to make an appointment with her doctor.

Good luck!

[DonnieDarko]

Have her ask her OBGYN (female plumbing doctor). My wife had similiar problems, and doc said that she had a tipped uteris, and it ultimatlely got fixed when she had kids.

No guy can know about all of the complexities of the female anatomy. It took me years to find things, and I still don't know where everything is. LOL

Seriously, let her talk to her doctor about this. No need to struggle unnecessarily.

A couple of Qs to think about (but don't need to answer here, cuz some things are private).


1) Ask her if she has ever had pain-free sex with anyone else.
2) Have you had sex with other gals without them experiencing pain.

[DonnieDarko]

Looks like I agree w/Cheery ..... I was composing while she was posting reply. Always listen to females in this area. They know their body better than we do. The important thing is not to be embarassed about asking questions.

[fuzzyblue]

i too am with Cheery on this one

[daZenfmeister]

Sucks for your girl man, maybe you're just too big. I wonder if you could find a place that offers penis reduction surgery.

[Reefer Rogue]

Up the poop shute.

[mellow mood]

2 options:

her pussy is too tight

or



your dick is too big