Dating websites....

[potsmokingnome]

Ok Normally i would not resort to dating web sites. i just put up a profile so i could meet more people, and if anythin developed from there fine. But I was usin this one site mate1.com. and oh my did i come across this super hot girl, and she was close to me so I thought I'd intiate contact. She responded back, gave me her e-mail addy for msn. and then we asked each other a few questions and found out we had sooo much in common. and get this she thinks I'm hot too! most people say cute, but hot!! :D :D We have so much in common, like the same music, we both love dogs, and we both oddly enough don't have our driver's liscence for the exact same reason: We both have allways lived somewhere we could walk where ever we go, or toook public transit, and we both would make horrible drivers! what are the chances of us randomly havin that in common?? She sings in bands too, and loves karaoke, and said she would sing to me, some Marylin Munroe, and that has been a fantasy/turn on for a long time now!!! When I responded: "warning!! may cxause Horniness!" she responded "Thats the plan!"...wow , just wow! We have a date planned just have to workl out a few details! :D omg i'm so happy i haven't been able to stop smillin all day long! this is sooo great, i can't wait to go on a date with her! any good sugestions for a first date? i was thinking of going there on my day off, and takin her out for lunch, and maybe dinner as well. and then go back later that night, or rent a hotwel room and stay a 2 days, but I will see how things go first! I'm so excited, i had to tell someoen, and that someone is all my pot friends! oh and she smokes the herb occasionally, and is ok with the fact that I'm a chronic lol Damn she is sooo hot!
Edit: This will be my first date since my seperation (8 months) damn i can't wait to meet her in person! :) I saw her facebook account, and there is no way you can fake that many pictures, she's freakin hot damn it!

[beachguy in thongs]

I hope that it turns out alright. Dating websites aren't the only way you can meet someone, over the internet. It's all about taking chances (if you're a guy). You can't meet too many women whom you don't like.

[crudemood]

some people are good liars, watch out but have fun at the same time :)

[potsmokingnome]

Oh i'll be careful, and I hope to have tons of fun :D giddy giddy ;)

[geonagual]

Awesome dude...just chill with her..try and take it as slow as you possibly can and have fun..and of course you are required to give a full report here on cann.com of EVERYTHING that happened..leave out no details. LOL

[FlyGuyOU]

yeah lets see this girl, have fun buddy

[Reefer Rogue]

Keep up the good work

[rebgirl420]

I met my fiance on date.com. I think that the internet is a great way to meet people. I would have never even known he existed if it weren't for the internet (he lived about an hour away from my house when we first started dating). I mean come on, now were living together and were getting married once I finish college.

[TOOL9]

Awesome man i hope everything works out:thumbsup:

[partcleguy]

Can I get a giggity?

[potsmokingnome]

gigity giggty goo! ;)

Wow thanks everyone! I really really love this place, why didn't I turn to you guys early for some advice. Ok We got chattin like crazy on Sunday, and on sunday night I could not sleep much restless as hell! got maybe 4 hours tops. and during Monday she sends me a message that she couldn't sleep either. (I sent her a message before I went to bed) and that she was thinkin the same things I was. (just amazed at how much we have in common and that i already feel a conection to her.) and that i should come take the bus to goto where she lives. (Which is like only like 45 minutes away.) andthat i didn't need to bother rentin a hotel, cause I could just sleep on her COUCH, and then i qoute " or maybe if things go well u can sleep with me OOPS too fast for ya? well too bad hahahaha" i was like omg! sweet! I didn't send that back to her in a message. but then later in the day I got remeinded about a stupid staff meeting that i had that night so i wouldn't be back home till 6:30-7 pm I sent her that message sayin I forgot about the stupid staff meeting be home around this time hope to see you online. So i come home, and there is no response and she's not online. Its 7:15 pm at that time, the meeting was late getting out. So I waited a bit sent her a quick message right away sayin i was home, hope to see her online at some point. Then i waited...and waited, got a bit anxious so I sent her another message sayin "damn, hope that staff meetin didn't ruin my chance of chattin with her. Cause in truth I'd been dyin to chat with her again. after more time passed I realized, she was not coming back online tonight ( I have her on msn too) so i sent her one last message..ok I sent like 2...I get nervous, and have anxiety at times. (and this is the first time in 8 months I have had a chance to even get to know someoen, and have those feelings all over again. its weird feelin this way again, after 8 months of seperation from my wife. and being with her for over 5 years, this is all so nbew to me) so before i sent the last e-mail I re read her message and it sounded like she was almost expectin me that night. I qoute "i took my brothers laptop home with me so ill be on all day until tonigiht haha " am i readin too much into that sentence? cause it almost makes me think she would be online all afternoon untill the evening..when I got there on the bus. was she waiting all afternoon to talk to me, and then at 4:40 pm I sent that message to her from work, was she expecting me there? I think i'm reading too much into it. Anyway i sent her a message sayin I hope that one stupid staff meeting would ruin the chances of us ever meeting. t may sound crazy but I feel this weird conection between me and her...and I haven't even met her yet. I know what mostwill say, that i'm rushin this too fast, but I just wanna see her and see if this conection is there on a face to face basis. I met my wife online originally so i know how you can make a somewhat coinection through the net. I juts wanna meet this girl, I really realy do, i even put in my last message, that I have a bag already packed (which I do) ready to go, and all she has to say is "get on that bus, and come see me" and I would, I'd leave right after work cause I have wednesday off, and i could stay over night be it the couch or her bed! ;) anyway what ya think, I know I need to slow down, but I have such a strong feeling, and I can't help but to listen to it, I like this girl a lot, and I'd really hate not to get the chance to meet her. And if ya think I'm coming on too strong, towards her maybe your right, but I've been gettin the same feed back from her...up till now. I hope I get a message from her tomorrow, just hope the 6 messages I sent her doesn't seem to desperate...I even sent one message with my cell phone enumber, which i would never normally do, but I just have this strong feeling/conection to her....am i crazy?

[geonagual]

WHOAAAAA!!!

looks like she is backing off a little to get her bearings...slow it down..do not send her another message until she contacts you..

[potsmokingnome]

yeah...i think i messed this up...and I won't send her another message till she contacts me...I rush things....

[geonagual]

Naw man, your ok..could be a bunch of things that could of happened today, you really dont know..she will tell you..if you both have that much in common, the ballgame is not even close to being over...I guarantee it.

[geonagual]

plus your just excited..I had the same exact shit happen to me about a month ago....

[potsmokingnome]

Naw man, your ok..could be a bunch of things that could of happened today, you really dont know..she will tell you..if you both have that much in common, the ballgame is not even close to being over...I guarantee it.

Thanks man! yopur awesome, i allways apreciate your advice, and I respect you!

[potsmokingnome]

well she deleted me from her facebook, can't be any more obvious then that, oh well I deserved it, Jumped the gun way too fast, and came on too strong. still sucks though....

[rebgirl420]

well she deleted me from her facebook, can't be any more obvious then that, oh well I deserved it, Jumped the gun way too fast, and came on too strong. still sucks though....

Awww oh well hun, just try again with someone new!

[JD1stTimer]

That's something I don't understand.. she said she wanted to sing Happy Birthday Mr. President in order to get you horny.... which means... she was planning to not have sex with you?! Just leave you with the blue balls? I wouldn't bring roses and light candles and then tell her I don't want to get close to her yet... does anyone else see what I'm saying or am I just too much of a moron?

[potsmokingnome]

I found a 420 dating site lol Might try my luck there, I dunno....Ideally I'd love just to meet someone in person, but I am soooo shy, and sometimes I feel like a social moron lol

Oh and btw Thanks Rebgirl for the breif words of incouragement :D :)

The thing that sucks the most is we had a lot in common...and she wasn't weirded out by the fact that i don't have my driver's liscence, cause neither did she. I think most people look down on me cause I don't drive. I can't help it if gettin behind the wheel freaks me out...thats one of my fears when dating, the moment the find out I don't drive,I just wonder if they think I'm a loser because of it lol

[rebgirl420]

I found a 420 dating site lol Might try my luck there, I dunno....Ideally I'd love just to meet someone in person, but I am soooo shy, and sometimes I feel like a social moron lol

Oh and btw Thanks Rebgirl for the breif words of incouragement :D :)

Yeah but you have to remember that everyone else on there feels like an idiot too when they first meet people. I think everyone does, whether they meet someone from online or not. At least, I know I feel like a tounge tied idiot for the first 25-30 minutes or so.

[potsmokingnome]

Yeah but you have to remember that everyone else on there feels like an idiot too when they first meet people. I think everyone does, whether they meet someone from online or not. At least, I know I feel like a tounge tied idiot for the first 25-30 minutes or so.

yeah thats true, but sometimes I get really tongue tied, I get silent, and There is not many people I can have a good repore with, ussually its a struggle for me to find somethin to talk about, I'm a very independent person, and am not a very social creature. Online its easier for me to comunicate, face to face, I just get nervous as hell, and it shows.

[rebgirl420]

Well dont be afraid to tell her that hun!

Im sure she'll understand, and if she doesn't, then hell, you don't wanna be with someone that cold anyway.

I know that if I was going on a date to meet someone and he told me that he was nervous and a bit shy I would think that that was cute. Its a compliment to a girl!

[potsmokingnome]

thank you for all your advice reb :) your a truely nice person, at least thats what I can tell from your posts on here. And you have allways been Very nice to me, thanks. I apreciate it :D

[rebgirl420]

Aww thanks hun. I appreciate that. And i've always been nice to you because, you've always been nice to me. Any time hun.

Now go take a shower, throw on some cologne and go out on the town and find yourself a sexy little pot smoking goddess!

[potsmokingnome]

Aww thanks hun. I appreciate that. And i've always been nice to you because, you've always been nice to me. Any time hun.

Now go take a shower, throw on some cologne and go out on the town and find yourself a sexy little pot smoking goddess!

wouldn't that be grand :) well I'm going grocery shoppin now so maybe I'll get lucky there! lol I highly doubt that though! lol but thanks again :D *gone shoping with cologne on* lol

[rebgirl420]

Go for the frozen food section, so even if you don't get lucky you may see some hard nipples

[potsmokingnome]

Go for the frozen food section, so even if you don't get lucky you may see some hard nipples

LMFAO thats too funny! lol

Nope didn't get lucky, but then again I'm not the type of guy to hit on or even intiate a convo with a female in a grocery store..

[rebgirl420]

Yeah most guys don't have the guts to just walk up to a girl and start bullshitting and talking. Thats why I take the first step 99.9 percent of the time. I hate to wait and I hate games. So that way either he's in or he's out. And then I can get on with my life.

I think its the fact that guys have fragile egos and being turned down even once can make them put the brakes of initiating anything other than a "hey".

[cannabis campbell]

No offence but it could be a man or something have you ever at least talked to her on the phone.

and what do you mean by "there is no way someone could fake that many photos" lol of course there is copy&paste.

[potsmokingnome]

No offence but it could be a man or something have you ever at least talked to her on the phone.

and what do you mean by "there is no way someone could fake that many photos" lol of course there is copy&paste.

LOL you could be right! either way it doesn't matter, I realized the way i acted scarred her off. I really have to learn to take it more easy in these type of situations. why the hell would I send 6 messages in one night, and in those messages I made so many assumptions. I hate when i assume things, i do it all the time lol

Reb if anyone as good looking as you walked up to me, and started talkin to me in the grocery store, or anywhere else for that matter, one I'd consider myself very lucky, and 2 I'd proably trip over my tongue sooooo many times. I'll admidt I'm intimidated by attractive women.

I've been tryin really hard to be more confident, and I'm workin on my low self esteem, but when it comes to relationships, and meeting people I'm hopeless...I know that type of attitude won't help. I really want to be a better person, and I'm getting so damn lonely....ugh...

[rebgirl420]

Awww don't beat yourself up over it. Your a pretty hot guy in my opinion. Plus your a sweetheart. At least you know what your problems are and your man enough to admit them. That the first step of change.

Frankly though I don't think you need to change. I think your just fine the way you are. And your NOT hopeless. At least your trying to actually get yourself out there. And if your lonely you can always talk to any of us on here. Im sure theres tons of people on here, myself included, that will talk to you when times get rough. I mean hell, isn't that what AIM and Yahoo are for?

Just keep trying! The more you put yourself out there the better your chances get.

[potsmokingnome]

Reb i just added you to my aim, I'm psg420.

[rebgirl420]

Okay hun! I dont have aim on this computer but I do have yahoo. So if you wanna download it id be more than happy to discuss your problems with you.

[geonagual]

I have my own relationship things going on to..I think I may have already said that..I am real tired and stoned and my phone keeps going buzz, buzz in my pocket..buzz, buzzzz

[cannabis campbell]

Okay hun! I dont have aim on this computer but I do have yahoo. So if you wanna download it id be more than happy to discuss your problems with you.

when are you gonna get msn messenger lol its so much better more americans should use it :hippy: I still talk to BFA on there.

[JD1stTimer]

The other day I started chatting it up to this SUPER cute girl while we were both donating blood. We seemed to really hit it off, I just remembered to draw out her feelings on life. She really enjoyed talking to me, and as she was leaving she made a big point to wave and give her biggest smile as she told me goodbye by name. Then dumbass I am, I failed to call her back and give my number to call me if she ever wanted someone to try on clothes at the mall with. (She is a fashion merchandising major, and she said she spends free time at the mall looking at clothes.) May be a good thing though, I hate fashion and I have ALWAYS hated clothes shopping. It gives me a good idea... blood banks should have matchup services... you already know the people care about others, they are charitable... and they don't pay for sex and use IV drugs... and they are already screened for diseases. To me having to ask if someone has a disease would really kill the mood.

[potsmokingnome]

Ok, update: Well since last time. I mentioned she deleted me from her facebook, well about 3 days later she messaged me on msn sayin that i bet I think she's quite the bitch. We chatted for a bit and she told me I did scare her off a bit, and we agreed to try it agai. So now we have been keepin in touch via msn and facebook. We have plans for this weekend. but I'm seem to be having a slight problem. She has asked me to call her a few times now. the first time I called she was out, that was fine, I just chatted with her the next day. the second time I called I got the voice mail again, but later that night she called me back. 1 am in the morning, but I really didn't mind that much. but now last night she knew I was going to call her at around 8 pm, but when i called i got the voice mail again! Is it just me or would this anoy everyone else? Maybe she has a viable excuss, and hopefully she will let me know at some point today. But I just wish she would be home when we agreed on a time to call, this seems a bit fishty to me, I dunno. I may be over reacting, but its just a bit annoying...I reallly really like this girl, and the more I find out about her, the more I find out we have in common. I just feel like she's playin some mind games on me, and I hate mind games, they drive me absoulutely insane...I dunno, I'm just going to wait paitently for her to either call me back, or send me a message lettin me know whats up..I would like to talk to her so we can iron out the details about our date on Saturday..I guess its only tuesday now...I dunno.

[geonagual]

I am going through the same thing with this one chick..didn't I already say that up there....she has you right where she wants you..right in her back pocket..I had to ask for advice on the same thing..she is playing games...it sucks..luckily I have about 3 other girls that I can date if i want to..

[MadSativa]

this is realy confusing is this thread about oline dating or what?? Cause adultfriend finder is the shit in my town. All the hotties are real not just pictures, and if you send updated pics of your self and they like....... its down. I havent been on a date in like 2-3 months but I have had enough hotty sex to be addicaed to hottiies. Coars I came out like that, but I did go to the bar the other day and a hotties came up to me all buzzed, (like shooting fish in a barrel). Just remember wrap your johnny and treat the girls good, even if they turn crazey on you.

[spliffstar22]

just stay calm, cool and collected, and you'll be good, and dont msg her so much, you might scare her away.....

[JD1stTimer]

Sounds like you're calling her too much...

[greenhorngrower]

yeah man, just chill... she shouldnt matter so much the second time around since you already thought you lost her.. just let her contact you, and dont act so desperate, chicks HATE that... but it wont matter once you meet her and show her your a cool guy. Until then just relax, everything will work itself out, dont sweat the small stuff..

good luck man

[potsmokingnome]

yep I'm backing off, if she wants to call me she can, if she wants to message me she can. I'm just going to chill back, and take it as it comes I need to slow my ass down. I haven't even met her yet and I was allready gettin all goo goo, I need to relax, and take it easy :)

[potsmokingnome]

ok wow, yep I'm in the friend booth now LOL oh well...yep just a msn chat buddy now lol oh well not really ready for a reltionship anyways, and I never even met her yet. Hope I don't get anymore drunken phone calls from her lol I need to take a step back from this all, and just go with the flow of my life :)

[geonagual]

ok wow, yep I'm in the friend booth now LOL oh well...yep just a msn chat buddy now lol oh well not really ready for a reltionship anyways, and I never even met her yet. Hope I don't get anymore drunken phone calls from her lol I need to take a step back from this all, and just go with the flow of my life :)

I have been following this thread as you know..cause it sounds so familiar/yet different in what is going on in my life...right now, I am chillin with all relationships and evaluating what I really want in my life..I am going to date or whatever but I am not really thinking about anything serious at all.

[potsmokingnome]

I have been following this thread as you know..cause it sounds so familiar/yet different in what is going on in my life...right now, I am chillin with all relationships and evaluating what I really want in my life..I am going to date or whatever but I am not really thinking about anything serious at all.

I'm with ya there bud, I'm just going to re-evaluating my life, and do whats good for myself :) if saomethin happens while I'm doin that it happens, but if it doesn't I don't care either, its time I focused on me :)

[potsmokingnome]

OMFG.....Ok tonight I was being kind of bored after I got home from work. So I went and smoked a joint outside, and then I decide to go on msn for a bit. I talked to one of my good friends that i know from here ironlotus she use to go on here, but not anymore she goes to another foroum. but we keep in touch via msn. Well anyways she explained to me how I dodged a huge bullet, cause well this girl had a kid. very young kid.. 9 months old. So after that convo was feelin better. I sure am a stubborn one sometimes lol. (ok just so ya know I'm stoned right now)

After that convo I decided to check my online dating porofile, maybe update it. So I started fixin my profile. When I get a IM invite from one of the females I had messaged before. So I acepted it, and we chatted for a bit (she lives in the same city as me) so after chattin a bit she asked for my number to just call her. So we talked on the phone, and then over the phone I found out she lives like 2 blocks away from me lol!....

Before I go any further, let me establish one thing. In our messages to each other before we agreed, that we should be friends first. No need to rush anything, friends first and see where it goes from there.

....So she invited me over! lol at this point I'm totlaly amazed, cause this is all sooo out of the blue. when I'm least expectin to actually meet someone even if its on a friend level first. So I tell her to give me 30 minutes to have a shower and stuff. She says thats good will give her time to clean up. So i go over, and we have a great time, I wasn't uncomfortable around her like I thought I would be. We clicked quite well, it was great! She showed me some U-tube stuff, that was funny as hell, and some of it was just groose. but it was all good cause it was still funny. then after that We watched a Movie, and it was really cool, cause I so clicked with this girl, and I hardly ever click with people right away. bit of a social outcast! so after the movie I left, She gave me her phone number. and we agreed to do somethin tomorrow :) we said goodbye and we both agreed we had a good time! :) I really had a good time :) and I know me and her are doing it the right way, we are startin as friends and takin it as we go. I like her, and she's pretty damn hot! I think somethin could come of this but even if it doesn't I get a new friend that i conect with.

Only one slight problem....she doesn't smoke the herb....but she's not totally against it. Seems like she just gets parinoid about getting it. she said she'd smoke a joint if her friend's are doin it at the time. So thats kind of kewl, maybe tomorrow i can be that friend? lol Well I'm just glad I met someone new :) and she's around my age as well :)

[thcbongman]

Blossoming love.....so beautiful. :thumbsup:

[geonagual]

haha..I know your friend from the other forum...I even have gotten stoned and hiked with her..lol..no lie

[trynagethigh]

Its alright PSN...just remember, some will, some wont, so what...keep on steppin my friend but dont go looking for love cause the love you find might not be the love you want, if that makes any sense. I definitely understand the way you feel, you get that nervous excited feeling especially before that first kiss. Its like a tingling, hair raising feeling thats just pure excitement that makes you feel GREAT!...:thumbsup:

[potsmokingnome]

haha..I know your friend from the other forum...I even have gotten stoned and hiked with her..lol..no lie

LOL you know ironlotus! Isn't she a kewl chickie? what's she like in person?

[psychocat]

I live in a town with around 200,000 people so by doing a little math I reckon
50% are female thats 100,000
approx 30% will be between 18 and 38 thats 33,300
approx 20% will be single so thats 6,600
If I couldn't find a suitable woman out of that many then I deserve to be single for the rest of my days.

Just my viewpoint.