First kisses

[cannabis=freedom]

Terrifying, aren't they? I've only initiated one once, and that was when I was absolutely certain she wanted it....anyone else feel like this?

[rebgirl420]

I usually just ask if I want a kiss instead of making him guess.

[jdub61]

my first kiss with my current girlfriend was a dare, lol, i wasn't really scared by it because we just jumped into it and never looked back

[invision]

i normally kiss 1st but i must be completely sure and feel out the situation before i look like a ass and feel pretty dumb, I never kissed on a first date either just too wierd and nerve racking.

i never have been rejected from a kiss either so id imagine that you must feel really dumb and awkward after.

[cannabis=freedom]

i normally kiss 1st but i must be completely sure and feel out the situation before i look like a ass and feel pretty dumb, I never kissed on a first date either just too wierd and nerve racking.

i never have been rejected from a kiss either so id imagine that you must feel really dumb and awkward after.

Yeah, just the idea of being rejected from a kiss puts my stomache in a knot...you'd probably feel incredibly shitty about yourself afterwards.

[Spoken Word]

I miss them.:(
But to answer your question.. yea, I get nervous too.
It's like I said in my first encounter thread....how are we supposed to know you want or are ready for a kiss???
I have never gotten my face pushed away or any kiss denied and I couldn't imagine the embarrasment.

[lagstronaut]

guys - when she starts looking at both of your eyes, then at your lips, then back at both of your eyes, that is what I call an OPENING!

*note: this does not apply if you have a major cold-sore or facial warts. or lockjaw

[yoda]

if i really like the girl, then yeah i'll be nervous to kiss her. you want it to be just right, ya know?

[psteve]

You kids crack me up!
It's a kiss. How hard is that?
Take a deep breath and go for it. Unless you drool a lot, everything's going to be fine.

[Hardcore Newbie]

Yeah, just the idea of being rejected from a kiss puts my stomache in a knot...you'd probably feel incredibly shitty about yourself afterwards.
Did somone take a sperm sample from me 10 years ago?

Jesus, in one of your other threads you were saying that we seems similar in certain regards. Reading your two posts in this thread, that's exactly how I felt at your age hahaha. I'm fairly ok with it now, but when I was in my teens, I'd never kiss a girl unless I was 100% sure she wanted it, backed up by many hints, just to be safe. I friggin hated the idea of rejection. I've only been rejected twice tho, but i attribute that to how friggin safe I used to (and still do to an extent) play it.

Even now if i'm bar hopping, sometimes that feeling gets to me and I get too scared to talk to the ladies. The logical reasonable version of me thinks "Who cares, if she doesn't like you, there's tonnes more to try with" but the more emotional me says "DON'T DO IT!" hahahaa

Tell me if that's like you too, bro..

[Hardcore Newbie]

guys - when she starts looking at both of your eyes, then at your lips, then back at both of your eyes, that is what I call an OPENING!

*note: this does not apply if you have a major cold-sore or facial warts. or lockjawYeah it has to be a gentle look, not one of "Wipe your damn face, you have wing sauce all over it"

[Spoken Word]

check out my first encounters thread.
http://boards.cannabis.com/sexuality/121387-first-encounters-question-females.html
i feel the same way man

[Spoken Word]

You kids crack me up!
It's a kiss. How hard is that?
Take a deep breath and go for it. Unless you drool a lot, everything's going to be fine.

shit, from what i remember. spending time with a girl you want to start a relationship with is nerve racking.:hippy:

[AsianStoner420]

I was so fuckin nervous the 1st time, i was like holyshit!!!! we were at this party and theres like 15 people on living room drinking beers and shit and this girl that i really like was there and we always talk on the phone how i really like her and stuff so this night i said to myself that i aint going home scoreless, so i was looking at her i was half drunk or "tipsy" if i may, then my buddy came up on the other side and he was like 'dudeeeeeeee!!, how u doin man' and i replied etc etc, then i looked back on this girls position but she was gone. I feel like i need to take a piss so i decided to go to this room where the toilet is and as i was walkin to the toilet door she suddenly came out of it she grabbed my shirt on the neck part pushin my tru the first door and she was smilin and starin at me like then we stared at each other for like 20 seconds and i was like wtf is goin on its like the time stpped or sthm then i kissed her and boy i felt so fucking good and we started to do some tongue to tounge action and her lips is soo fucking soft, well i have no comparison tha time coz it was 1st time i just realized it after a year,... and after that night she became my first kiss and my first gf and my last love....

[stinkyattic]

Well first kisses EVER... man that was a long time ago...

But first kisses of a relationship... damn, the first time I kissed my current man it was one to write home about... at the airport... the first time we met face to face... we met here on canncom actually... I'd seen his pic but wasn't prepared for how sexy he is. mm mm mm.

THAT was a truly great kiss. Airports are kinda hot...

[geonagual]

I remember the first girl that I kissed..I was 9 and at the Football hall of fame in Canton..she had a huge birthmark on her arm with hairs coming out of it. YIKES!!

[spliffstar22]

^^^LMFAO

First kisses are always a bit nerve-racking.....I just go for the signs and im in, just that look, and biting of the lips, licking the lips, and if their sitting on your lap, that's a pretty good sign, and if they grab your head and put your face towards theirs lol...................The signs are always there, girls usually initiate wit me, so i dont gotta be nervous goin in for a kiss at the wrong time and lookin like a complete jackass lol

[420MissHighTimes420]

First kisses are sooo fun. They let you know that there are many good times to come out of that one kiss. As far as being a bit nerve raking I love it, the butterflys in your stomach that first time are fun.

[cannabis=freedom]

Did somone take a sperm sample from me 10 years ago?

Jesus, in one of your other threads you were saying that we seems similar in certain regards. Reading your two posts in this thread, that's exactly how I felt at your age hahaha. I'm fairly ok with it now, but when I was in my teens, I'd never kiss a girl unless I was 100% sure she wanted it, backed up by many hints, just to be safe. I friggin hated the idea of rejection. I've only been rejected twice tho, but i attribute that to how friggin safe I used to (and still do to an extent) play it.

Even now if i'm bar hopping, sometimes that feeling gets to me and I get too scared to talk to the ladies. The logical reasonable version of me thinks "Who cares, if she doesn't like you, there's tonnes more to try with" but the more emotional me says "DON'T DO IT!" hahahaa

Tell me if that's like you too, bro..

Haha yeah, man, I completely identify with that....this is freaky, man. Well it seems that my future self is doing pretty well haha, so I'm happy.

[Reefer Rogue]

I love initiating kisses with my girlfriend. Kissing girls for the first time is awesome.

[cannabis=freedom]

I love initiating kisses with my girlfriend. Kissing girls for the first time is awesome.

Not denying that....it's just getting there that's scary as fuck.

[Hardcore Newbie]

Haha yeah, man, I completely identify with that....this is freaky, man. Well it seems that my future self is doing pretty well haha, so I'm happy.
I can live vicariously through you, and myself at the same time, this is great. If I have any really bad experiences, I'll warn you beforehand so it doesn't happen to you hahaha.

[FakeBoobsRule]

Terrifying, aren't they?

It's just a kiss. Look for an opening and go for it. If you don't do it you are going to second guess yourself so just do it. I don't think I have ever been denied or slapped for going in for a kiss. It's the best way to tell if they are into you.

[cannabis=freedom]

I can live vicariously through you, and myself at the same time, this is great. If I have any really bad experiences, I'll warn you beforehand so it doesn't happen to you hahaha.

Haha, thanks, man, much appreciated.

[Reefer Rogue]

If you're with a girl and you've made some physical contact, your hand around her waist, holding hands.. if the mood is right, which you will just know, then go for it. He who dares wins. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, ie, rejection.

[spliffstar22]

^^yeah, once you get some sort of physical contact like arm around her, and shit, just go in for the killl..........girls know to expect it, so go for it.......