Girls Help Me Out Here

[Frickr]

I am just searching for some ideas for something really romantic to do for my girl. Shes been going through a bit of a down time, so i want to cheer her up. Any ideas what i might do, i live in a small town so there isnt to much i can really take her out to, not to mention money is an issue, i have enough, and am willing to spend it, but i dont want to just "buy" a date you know? i'm just looking for your ideas on what you guys like.

[Samwhore]

Go to the park at evening and make a picnic. When your at the picnic, give her a Hallmark card and write something cute.

There. It's not that hard.

[Frickr]

haha i know its not hard, i have a few ideas, im just courious on what really makes you guys feel the most appriciated

[Samwhore]

Me? I'm actually not in a good mood today. Anything sounds good right now.

[crudemood]

take off a day, and just spend time with her, make her feel special make her feel like its her day

[higher4hockey]

you should already know how to make the ol lady feel special. every girl i've ever known drops hints to what she really likes and what makes her feel special. all you have to do is listen.


and since that in no way helps you out at the moment, here is some more advice. this is nothing big, but its nice. whenever my ol lady is down and unhappy about something, i ask her : did anybody tell you you look beautiful today? she'll say no...she always does. then tell her 'well i think you're beautiful'

[rebgirl420]

10 Cheap Date Ideas:

Number 10

Take her where the action is
A great way to ensure a fun-filled date with a woman is to take her to an area where there's a lot going on. Trendy outdoor malls with funky shops and street performers are a sure hit; the entertainment is built into the experience, and just strolling around and talking makes for a fun and carefree date.

Number 9
Take her on a night walk
Want to really blow her away? Do something she's never done or even thought of before, and take her on a night hike! Grab a bottle of wine, a couple of glasses and a blanket, and take her on a short hike to a place that has a nice view. If your originality doesn't wow her, the stars and the sights will.

Number 8

Take her shopping
If you want to show a girl some fun without spending a lot of money on her, bring her along while you spend some money on you! Women love to shop, and what woman could resist being invited to accompany you while you buy some new threads? Just be sure not to "wuss out" when you get there. Ask for her opinion, but don't let her pick out all of your clothes.

Number 7

Take her to the park
Bring out her fun, carefree side by taking her to a park to swing on the swings. Get behind her and push her for bonus points, then put her on the merry-go-round and spin her around gently.

Number 6

Take her for a dog walk
Every girl loves animals (and those who don't will never admit to it). So for a great date, bring her along while you take your dog for a walk. This date is even better if you borrow a dog from a friend (you can tell her you're dog sitting) Bring along some treats and have her help you teach the dog some new tricks. When she sees how good you are with animals, she'll want you to teach her some new tricks as well!

Number 5
Teach her something
If you can teach a woman something that she has always wanted to do you she will see you as "her hero" from day one! Take her surfing, teach her how to paint... or grab some boxing gloves and show her how to throw a punch. She'll remember you forever... and you're sure to have a blast.

Number 4
Watch TV together
For a night of stimulating conversation, invite her over to watch the latest hot reality TV show. Most women love reality TV, and with all of the drama you'll be watching, great conversation is guaranteed. If you wish, you can also watch a movie.

Number 3

Make dining unique
If you insist on taking her to a restaurant, don't take the dinner route. Instead, grab some dessert or take her to a place that serves up unique, exotic drinks. You'll spend less money, show her a new experience and, most importantly, you won't come off like you are "trying too hard."

Number 2

Take her on a bike ride
For a guaranteed good time, take her on a bike ride. Make sure there are some good places you can stop on the way for a quick break, like a juice bar or a coffee shop. For bonus points, pick a great destination like a park or the beach, and bring along some crackers, cheese and wine to share. Do this right and the next stop will be your place (so long as she doesn't catch you making motorcycle noises).

Number 1

Take her for a late-night dip
If you're feeling adventurous and you sense she might be up for some mischief, put together a "mission" to sneak into the pool area of a trendy hotel. If you get busted you'll have an awesome story to tell, and if you don't? You get to see her in a bikini!

[Air]

Dick her doggy style.... sorry thats what id do.

[FakeBoobsRule]

Diamonds.

[rebgirl420]

hahaha hell yes diamonds!

[lagstronaut]

thank you rebgirl for the cheap date ideas!

[stinkyattic]

I like the picnic idea best.

[mattmao]

picnic sounds cool,but all you have to do is make it her day(as mentioned before).run her a bath ,make her a fat joint.while she is relaxing cook a nice meal,then sit down to a movie and enjoy each other. and most of all tell her no matter what she is going through good or bad you will always be there for her. well that usually works for me.so good luck.!!

[stinkyattic]

and most of all tell her no matter what she is going through good or bad you will always be there for her.
Yes absolutely. That is what people need to hear once in a while... not just girls I 'm sure.

[napolitana869]

Its nice that you want to want to do something to cheer her up. I've been down lately too and my boyfriend is going to take me to my favorite pizza place for dinner tonight. Flowers are also a great way to cheer a girl up.

[stinkyattic]

Flowers are also a great way to cheer a girl up.
Particularly, flowers of certain members of the family Cannabaceae... :jointsmile:
And THEN pizza!!!

[Mark Bryan]

10 Cheap Date Ideas:

Number 10

Take her where the action is
A great way to ensure a fun-filled date with a woman is to take her to an area where there's a lot going on. Trendy outdoor malls with funky shops and street performers are a sure hit; the entertainment is built into the experience, and just strolling around and talking makes for a fun and carefree date.

Number 9
Take her on a night walk
Want to really blow her away? Do something she's never done or even thought of before, and take her on a night hike! Grab a bottle of wine, a couple of glasses and a blanket, and take her on a short hike to a place that has a nice view. If your originality doesn't wow her, the stars and the sights will.

Number 8

Take her shopping
If you want to show a girl some fun without spending a lot of money on her, bring her along while you spend some money on you! Women love to shop, and what woman could resist being invited to accompany you while you buy some new threads? Just be sure not to "wuss out" when you get there. Ask for her opinion, but don't let her pick out all of your clothes.

Number 7

Take her to the park
Bring out her fun, carefree side by taking her to a park to swing on the swings. Get behind her and push her for bonus points, then put her on the merry-go-round and spin her around gently.

Number 6

Take her for a dog walk
Every girl loves animals (and those who don't will never admit to it). So for a great date, bring her along while you take your dog for a walk. This date is even better if you borrow a dog from a friend (you can tell her you're dog sitting) Bring along some treats and have her help you teach the dog some new tricks. When she sees how good you are with animals, she'll want you to teach her some new tricks as well!

Number 5
Teach her something
If you can teach a woman something that she has always wanted to do you she will see you as "her hero" from day one! Take her surfing, teach her how to paint... or grab some boxing gloves and show her how to throw a punch. She'll remember you forever... and you're sure to have a blast.

Number 4
Watch TV together
For a night of stimulating conversation, invite her over to watch the latest hot reality TV show. Most women love reality TV, and with all of the drama you'll be watching, great conversation is guaranteed. If you wish, you can also watch a movie.

Number 3

Make dining unique
If you insist on taking her to a restaurant, don't take the dinner route. Instead, grab some dessert or take her to a place that serves up unique, exotic drinks. You'll spend less money, show her a new experience and, most importantly, you won't come off like you are "trying too hard."

Number 2

Take her on a bike ride
For a guaranteed good time, take her on a bike ride. Make sure there are some good places you can stop on the way for a quick break, like a juice bar or a coffee shop. For bonus points, pick a great destination like a park or the beach, and bring along some crackers, cheese and wine to share. Do this right and the next stop will be your place (so long as she doesn't catch you making motorcycle noises).

Number 1

Take her for a late-night dip
If you're feeling adventurous and you sense she might be up for some mischief, put together a "mission" to sneak into the pool area of a trendy hotel. If you get busted you'll have an awesome story to tell, and if you don't? You get to see her in a bikini!
Rebgirl,I couldn't have picked better tips! Now if only I had cash on hand! OH! Guess who added me to her Myspace! Q'orianka (kore-ee-anka) Kilcher! www.myspace.com/uglyducky28 (http://www.myspace.com/uglyducky28) Q'Orianka Online - Set # 001/001 (http://www.qorianka-online.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=44&pos=0) A.K.A Pocahontas from The New World! The New World Movie Official Site: New Movie Trailers: Colin Farrell Gallery Christian Bale Free Movie Clips (http://www.thenewworldmovie.com) I'm gonna TRY to go to the Jamestown Festivities! I HOPE she shows up!

[rebgirl420]

no prob guys, im a relationship guru haha jk

[Mark Bryan]

You do QUITE WELL! I also LOVE your before and after pictures! Quite an improvement! Maybe we should call you Dr. REBGIRL!:thumbsup: :D