how to tell my girl this.

[Greenport]

Alright I liked her wen we first started goin out and shit, i liked her alot. But iv been thinkin about her alot lately, and i came to the conclusion that im in love with her. I dont use the word love lightly by the way, i only use it if i actually mean it. i dunno guys, i just keep picturin her lookin fuckin beautiful in her nice short sleeve shirt with them jeans and shit. I know I gotta tell her, but how? Shes on vacation. Should i wait til she gets back and tell her?

[Samwhore]

How long have you been dating? Too early may scare her.

[Greenport]

Yeah it hasnt really been all that long. Thats what i was thinkin. But shes just so beautiful! I think ill wait a little bit.. seems logical to me.

[Samwhore]

I wouldn't say it if it's under 4 months.

[Greenport]

yeah, her best friend is tellin me YOU GOTTA TELL HER! i told her that u were givin me advice on the website and shes just like THEY DONT KNOW RAQUEL!

[higher4hockey]

dont confuse lust with love !

[Samwhore]

I know, can I ask if she's the first love you've ever had?

[rebgirl420]

Take some more time to tell her, but when you tell her dont lay it on thick like a soap opera, be subtle and sweet. Maybe a daisy and a kiss on the cheek.

[Greenport]

I know, can I ask if she's the first love you've ever had?

no she isnt the first one...and thx for the help samwhore and rebgirl i give my leet lettered heart out to both of you for the time you have given me today :) <3

[rebgirl420]

Its what we do haha

[Samwhore]

Hm, well then, my post is completely ruined then, I had everything all planned out.

I have to agree with H4H, it's just too soon. While it may be sweet, having you say that will either make her,

-Become a little freaked out,
-Say it back and mean it,
-Or say it back and not mean it only not to hurt your feelings.

I would wait, I know it's hard that you love her and you want to tell her right now. I would just continue being the best partner I could be, and call her up right now just to say hello. :hippy:

[Goddess of Green]

my boyfriend and i said it after a month or 2. we both knew it was the perfect moment and he said it. it was a beautiful spot of soft grass in the woods, aah so romantic. i love him so much :)


ANYWHO..haha just stick to your gut man, if you feel it's a good thing to do then you should tell her when she's back. for bonus points, tell her in a nice spot. tell her how beautiful she is

[Samwhore]

I just find it so damn cute when a guy tells you he loves you and his voice gets all nervous, his cheeks get all red. It's too cute.

[Greenport]

now i just relized i had the perfect moment to kiss her yesterday and i missed it to! wow i feel like im going nowhere fast in a fuckin rowboat!

[Samwhore]

Do it in person, it's cute, if your nervous, you can also say, "Would it be okay if I loved you?"

[Greenport]

yeah. i think she wanted me to kiss her tho. we wedre in my moms car at a party alone and she kept leanin over to me and shit, i think i fucked up. lol. But shes a very good girl, in a non slutty sort of way. thank god for that.

[Samwhore]

Wait, why didn't you kiss her?

[1chronic]

It's good that you take it seriously. I'd take her somewhere nice (It doesn't have to be a fancy restaurant that costs you the big bucks.) Just take her to a nice shady spot on a nice day (location permitting, I don't know what the weather is like where you live.) and look her right in the eyes so she knows your serious.

Oh and like Samwhore said. Don't be ashamed if you do one of these:

" *insert name here* I just wanted to say your really pretty and....and... I love you. "

She'll think it's cute. It'll be better to say it slow or stutter then to blurt it our real fast. Good luck bro.

[Greenport]

Wait, why didn't you kiss her?

cause alot of people around and shit, but i dunno ima pussy arent i? yup. Im a striaght up vagina wen it comes to this shit

[higher4hockey]

i think you should wait on telling her you love her.

[1chronic]

Oh man, that would be the perfect time to kiss her.

You have no idea how badly I want to put that line in my signature. I'm just dieing laughing right now.

[Greenport]

I KNOW I SHULD! man i dunno tho. Its just weird. its been along time since i been wit a girl i truely loved like this.

[1chronic]

although, if you haven't kissed her yet, you too might not know each other well enough to be telling her you love her.

[higher4hockey]

well riddle me this, if things are going good with her right now why chance it, telling a girl you love her when you're afraid to kiss her in you moms car in front of your friends doesnt seem to me like a good idea. what have you got to lose by NOT telling her that ?

[1chronic]

h4h, 1 more post and your at 1,400!!

and greenport, I have to agree with what h4h said there.

[Greenport]

well riddle me this, if things are going good with her right now why chance it, telling a girl you love her when you're afraid to kiss her in you moms car in front of your friends doesnt seem to me like a good idea. what have you got to lose by NOT telling her that ?

not in fronna my friends. In front of my moms friends.

[higher4hockey]

still.....you see what im getting at though ?

[Greenport]

yes, but i feel like iv fucked myself royaly. I feel like a jackass for not kissin her. I appriciate all your help tho, you stoners are good people ;)

[higher4hockey]

well dont make up for it by telling her you love her, make up for it by smooching her the next time you see her!

[yoda]

dont overanalyze the situation, that'll cause you to freeze up. just act naturally, if you want to kiss her, just go in to kiss her, see how she responds. hell, if you're lucky, she'll always want to be kissing you.

when i first told my girlfriend i loved her, it was basically an accident. late at night for me on the phone(she lives in Cali at moment and was there at the time, here in maryland until saturday), i was just thinking to myself "ok time to say goonight". well after i said that, i blurted out "i love you". and i just kinda froze like fuck...but she said it back. so i was all happy.

[Greenport]

Ty for ur experience yoda, needa sumthin like that. btw i never see u round nemore :/

[da dubs]

i have a confession to make,,i fancied a girl for 3years,shortly after she turned 17 and i 20,i plucked up the courage to ask her out,,durning our first date i reliesed i was listening to this amazing person speak,,and i knew there and then that i loved her,,told her so the following week,,
and to my suprise 19years and 3kids later,i,m even more in love with this special person,,
think i,m trying to say,you know when you know,,

ps..great advise also from the women in earlier posts

peace and happiness to all:hippy: :)

[Goddess of Green]

i have a confession to make,,i fancied a girl for 3years,shortly after she turned 17 and i 20,i plucked up the courage to ask her out,,durning our first date i reliesed i was listening to this amazing person speak,,and i knew there and then that i loved her,,told her so the following week,,
and to my suprise 19years and 3kids later,i,m even more in love with this special person,,
think i,m trying to say,you know when you know,,

ps..great advise also from the women in earlier posts

peace and happiness to all:hippy: :)



aww:clap:

[potsmokingnome]

yeah, her best friend is tellin me YOU GOTTA TELL HER! i told her that u were givin me advice on the website and shes just like THEY DONT KNOW RAQUEL!

You have no choice but to tell her, You told her best friend, if you don't tell her soon. Her best friend will proably tell her before you do! lol thats a hard secret for a best friend to hide...lol

[potsmokingnome]

i have a confession to make,,i fancied a girl for 3years,shortly after she turned 17 and i 20,i plucked up the courage to ask her out,,durning our first date i reliesed i was listening to this amazing person speak,,and i knew there and then that i loved her,,told her so the following week,,
and to my suprise 19years and 3kids later,i,m even more in love with this special person,,
think i,m trying to say,you know when you know,,

ps..great advise also from the women in earlier posts

peace and happiness to all:hippy: :)

Great advice!

[napolitana869]

yeah if you told her friend chances are she already knows.

[Eazy]

i learnt the hard way

if you love some one tell them becos every second they could get further or clsoer away if its further it only makes the heart grow stronger and

love doesnt fade u just hide it

tell her man
get ur sweaty balls and slap her face with them when she is asleep

or
u could sing her a song
write a song
or tell her

hope it works

send me the video's ;)

[RyanTheCaveman]

Yeh if its early in the relationship...then dont say i love you...it usually freaks the girl out...