View Full Version : does weed make you feel lonely?
crudemood
03-31-2007, 06:46 PM
Seomties when you end up having to smoke alone because some of your friends dont want to smoke or they just dont smoke do you feel like your alone and a weirdo because you're the only one doing it?
Recently ive been smoking alot alone and i feel like everyone is singling me out because i smoke and then no one understands me, its really fustrating, if only the world smoked weed.
Skrappie
03-31-2007, 06:54 PM
if your friends don't smoke but know you do, i personally wouldn't smoke around them, but i also would not hide the fact that I smoke. I'm sure if you are around most of your friends high enough, and you're not acting like a jerk i'm sure one of them will get curious sooner or later. 
Even if none of them ever smoke, they all know you do it so don't let that fact get you down. If you have cool friends they are cool whether they smoke cannabis or not. 
all and all its cool bro :thumbsup:
NextLineIsMine
03-31-2007, 06:56 PM
Sometimes I feel there isn't a single soul on earth remotely like myself, but I still make good friends to keep me company in my teen angst
tokin'smoker
03-31-2007, 07:11 PM
Sometimes I feel there isn't a single soul on earth remotely like myself
i feel like that when i toke alone sometimes. i smoke by myself quite frequently, sometimes i get lonely, but most of the time i just look at it like this, i'm having a blast entertaining myself, without any of the negatives big groups have. so life is good.
Reefer Rogue
03-31-2007, 07:13 PM
No.
originalblu
03-31-2007, 07:31 PM
i smoke weed too :jointsmile:
Greenport
03-31-2007, 07:33 PM
recently yes. I feel lonely and depressed but not today :P. But I also think, what if I never have even 1 sober memory again? What if I just trail threw life stoned as fuck. Then it gets me down because I LOVE being high, but I gotta get those sober memories too and shit ya know? and i just think alot and make myself lonely and sad like no1 understands me. I trailed off course but im high so i dont really care lol :P
I smoke on my own all the time, and i dont feel lonely. I treat my weed as a roommate, and if i feel i want a chat, if i got some plants on the go i'll bring em out and let them watch TV with me.
Oneironaut
03-31-2007, 07:40 PM
Weed doesn't make me feel lonely at all. Actually, without weed, I probably wouldn't have been able to make any of the friends I have today. I find weed is a powerful tool for meeting cool people and getting to know them better. My advice is to locate some stoners and smoke them up. They won't say no, even if they don't know you (would you say no to an offering stranger?) and you can use that as a springboard to new friendships. Stoner friends rock. :joint1:
Oneironaut
03-31-2007, 07:42 PM
Sometimes I feel there isn't a single soul on earth remotely like myself, but I still make good friends to keep me company in my teen angst
Of course there isn't a single soul on earth like yourself. That's the nature of humanity. We're all unique individuals. Embrace it, and embrace other people's unique individuality. You're never going to find somebody who shares everything in common with you, so just learn to love the people you share this planet with the way they are. :hippy:
orangeman
03-31-2007, 07:48 PM
Only time weed makes me lonely is when I realize when I have my own place people can't come over because I grow.
bong_man
03-31-2007, 07:57 PM
I smoke alone all the time and never feel lonely! i do know what you mean though, a few weeks ago i was totaly baked and quite pissed and i took out my papers and rolled up a dubie with these chicks and the look i got off them was unreal! i've never been around people who dont smoke! it was crazy i got my shit and left lol
conch420
03-31-2007, 08:45 PM
i never feel alone cause i always got my friend mary jane.
jokeyjokejoke
03-31-2007, 09:08 PM
Only when it runs out on me.
acrca
03-31-2007, 09:10 PM
yeah i dont feel lonely if i have weed lol
VaporDaddy
03-31-2007, 09:34 PM
I haven't burned with anyone in about a year but this site helps me realize I'm not alone.:jointsmile:
Samwhore
03-31-2007, 09:35 PM
Yes, it does get loney, then I think about it sober. I really hate blazing with more than a group of 4 people.
Skink
03-31-2007, 09:38 PM
White Widow this is Jack Herrer now lets all sit down and watch The Trailer Park Boys,,,LoLzzz...
Crude I am a loner in life and can't really relate... Whether I smoke or don't smoke I am still alone,,,LoLzzz... I don't smoke to get stoned,,, actually 2/3 hits is all I take at a time for certain other reasons,,,ambition,,,sense of taste and smell... I think maybe a break would sort you out,,,really can't determine how you feel in a long run until you view it from the other side of the fence for a long time too...
IDK if this is about acceptance or loneliness??? If peeps can't accept who you are screw'em "new word" and find peeps who are a bit more unconditional to be your friends... I also think the word "friend" is used to loosely because most of our acquaintances would bail when the going gets rough... so don't look at it as pot is the evil partner here,,,my2...
Crudemood, the offer still stand about the van. ;)
You wouldnt be lonely in their, i got a mini fridge, and i could get a 12v colour tv too, although we'd have to run the engine or the batt would die on us, but like we said, perfect smoking place. 
I'll light one up for you now - and i just know you'd love this stuff i've got now. The smell is out of this world, one of the best strains i think i've ever smelt. and the stone is up at the top of the list too. I fucking love this stuff. I cant get enough of it. And it stinks.
higher4hockey
03-31-2007, 09:53 PM
if smoking weed alone makes you feel lonely, whatever you do, dont start drinking alone.
mad_nat
04-16-2007, 11:51 PM
depends when i have it i dont mind smoking when i just had a piss-up or when i got in after college. But i do feel lonely when am bored and no one comes out for a spliff wid me.
thcbongman
04-16-2007, 11:53 PM
Sometimes, even when I'm smoking with people.
BabyFacedAbortion
04-17-2007, 12:00 AM
Weed doesn't make me lonely..I get lonely when I'm by myself naturally. I NEED to be around atleast one other person or I feel lost and bored. When I smoke alone tho, I usually fuck around on the net, eat or sleep..never gets old and I never get sad.
crudemood
04-17-2007, 05:17 AM
Crudemood, the offer still stand about the van. ;)
You wouldnt be lonely in their, i got a mini fridge, and i could get a 12v colour tv too, although we'd have to run the engine or the batt would die on us, but like we said, perfect smoking place. 
I'll light one up for you now - and i just know you'd love this stuff i've got now. The smell is out of this world, one of the best strains i think i've ever smelt. and the stone is up at the top of the list too. I fucking love this stuff. I cant get enough of it. And it stinks.
well i guess not everyone is as lonely.. well. how wonderful, it makes me feel so much better guys! lol!
Lip! i miss our chats, and you know how im definately coming to england just to visit you and your van right? :p
A Scanner Darkly
04-17-2007, 05:18 AM
I smoke alone all the time and I love it. No one to bother you or snap your out of your trance. I prefer it over smoking with others.
I mean, yeah, smoking with friends is great, too. They each have their perks, of course.
well i guess not everyone is as lonely.. well. how wonderful, it makes me feel so much better guys! lol!
Lip! i miss our chats, and you know how im definately coming to england just to visit you and your van right? :p
I'll have to get myself on msn than! :rastasmoke: 
I'll look forward to it.
xxxhazexxx
04-17-2007, 11:37 AM
I smoke on my own all the time, and i dont feel lonely. I treat my weed as a roommate, and if i feel i want a chat, if i got some plants on the go i'll bring em out and let them watch TV with me.
my kind of nutter lol:stoned: :stoned:
LOC NAR on probation
04-17-2007, 12:02 PM
Saw your post. Most of my friends are dead from cancer and car wrecks and suck or gone. When I can smoke just not right now it does make me lonely. Old friends , concerts , the good old days. Old time smoker. LOL
GHoSToKeR
04-17-2007, 12:39 PM
No. There's not much more I can say. Some people don't have a problem with being alone, some people hate it, some people prefer it. Personally I toke up more with friends than on my own, but I do occasionally get the urge to smoke on my own, put on some Ambient Nights or Cafe Del Mar and come and cruise around Cannabis.com.. If that's what loneliness is, then I'm the loneliest person on earth :D
matrixhomie
07-11-2009, 11:22 PM
i get descriminated ALOT because my skin color is green, well not literally green its a metaphore or whatever its called.
i get alotve put downs in school though because most people in my town dont like "drug addict" "drop out" "crackhead" "pothead". im not even a pothead, i smoke like 2ce a week and i have never dropped out, i dont do crack lol.
so many people in my school say it kills braincells and makes you stupid and i hear alotve "dont you know a marijuana ciggarrette is like a pack of ciggarretes?" or "everytime you smoke weed a year gets taken off your life" and other bullshit.
so yeah i smoke weed alone almost everytime, but i do go socialize with people when im high.
so im saving all my weed for when i start highschool in like 4 months lol.
which is actually smart because i have drug testing this summer.
ucanefan
07-11-2009, 11:26 PM
I smoke alone like four times a day at least, then chill with friends and end up smoking with them. There's nothin wrong with gettin high when and wherever you wanna get high
bigred5
07-12-2009, 03:39 AM
You shouldnt feel alone.  Friends should like you for you.  If ur a jerk wen ur high then try not to be... or dont smoke around them.  But REAL friends accept u the way u is.  My best friend is a toker too, so i dont really have a problem.  All my other friends kno that i do, but hell, most of them are tokers too, and the ones that are not are just like "well, thats eric for you, stupid as shit but still my good buddy"  Although, some of the things i do make people think im toasted 24/7 so they cant tell when i am and when im not.  Sorry for rambling on..... hope this helps...:rastabanna:
KyleIsNorml
07-12-2009, 08:02 AM
I myself can't smoke alone, I try my damnest to avoid smoking alone. I just don't get the same vibe as I do when I'm around someone..I suppose its just a personality thing. Some can and some can't everyone is different man. Just keep it real and stay true to yourself, don't let anyone push you around or put you down under :jointsmile:
Smoketobehappy
07-12-2009, 06:27 PM
I've been using cannabis for like 3 or so years and I only started smoking inside at home by myself about 2 years ago. For the first half year or so it was really fun smoking by myself and I'd always get higher cause I could smoke more to myself. After that, I started to get bored of it. I think the reason was that I was still new to pot and after a while it lost that crazy edge it used to have. Now I always would rather have a friend smoking withing me, and sometimes when i smoke by myself I feel like i'm feeding an addiction more then "enjoying" the cannabis for what it is.
I will definitely agree that when I smoke by myself I get lonely sometimes.
ronjohn420
07-13-2009, 03:12 AM
I smoke alone all the time and I love it. No one to bother you or snap your out of your trance. I prefer it over smoking with others.
I mean, yeah, smoking with friends is great, too. They each have their perks, of course.
i agree:thumbsup:
cambam
07-14-2009, 06:22 PM
Answer to question, no it doesn't.
GetintheVan
07-14-2009, 07:46 PM
i use to get that feeling when i was at home and none of my friends could chill, i would smoke a bowl by myself, or sometimes with my brother.
But now, i dont feel weird smoking alone because i know 94% of the time im out toking with my friends.
Plus it is amazing to pack a bowl, smoke it and go to bed....
Feels so good.   :thumbsup:
sheist
07-22-2009, 04:42 AM
Yea I've had similar issues in the past dealing with that kind of crap. 
GF's who blame b's on the weed, when they met me as a 'pothead' and haven't known me before its introduction. 
Homeboys who dick around when the blunt/joint/bowl/bong's being passed, knowing good and well they should be considerate of their hits and others', especially when they don't pay for it. 
Homeboys who expect the hookup just cus they're on the 'inside' or something
Homegirls who expect the hook up cus they're on the inside
Overall, friends who try to take advantage and don't notice or don't care how obvious they are. 
As well as friends or so called, who bash you everytime you slip-up (whether it's on a joke, clumsiness, can't think of a word or name, fruedian slip), blaming it on the pot. Judging my hoodie rocking fashion and my 'skatershoes.' Simply considering me on the other side of the law. 
I imagine alot of it is on appearance, ever since i switched clothes (seasonally) i noticed a change in peoples attitudes and approaches.. 
people are just not to be trusted.. however alot of my misfortunes happened by my own doing, so i cant even say to trust my self =P
but i gotta keep friends on a watchful eyes, and thinkin about that.. if i really have to watch my friends, what kind of friends are they really?! >=P
I've enjoyed smoking by myself, it gives me peace of mind,  kills time, noone's there to fuck it up, by spilling shit or breaking shit, or ruining the moment period.. i agree with above dude, each have their perks
my best friend feels the same, and we usually go off into the night alone by ourselves, and burn a forest down lol
Boy1236
07-24-2009, 04:05 AM
yeah I know how it feels .... 
but it's rare to Not find anyone to smoke with if you got some ...
just wait for it like I did ........ the mothership will pick you up sooner or later :hippy:
JohnnyZ
07-24-2009, 04:34 AM
Sheist I feel you man, situation is the same up here. No one really respects it. The thing I compare it to is, say I'm just chillin in the park and drinking a beer. People don't come up and ask for a sip of your beer. Why is the attitude with weed so different? Alright it's all hippie shit but this isn't the 70's anymore and your right dude, people can't be trusted. You gotta at least barter with me if you aren't gunna pack the next bowl. Mooches get under my skin man.
I love being high as shit all by myself. The more people there are the more chance that Buzz Killington will pay you a visit. But I do love puffing down with my best friend, nothing will ever beat that. Burn one down and talk for hours or go on adventures or just listen to music. Come to think of it I don't really like smoking with more than one other person, something always happens. 
But over all, nothing will beat hitting the bong in bed with your girl by your side. That's heaven enough for me.
flyytee
07-24-2009, 10:10 PM
I do start to feel lonely
i juss like smoking with someone rly funny... or someone who tells great stories
when I'm high I start to miss my friends
Coelho
07-26-2009, 06:12 PM
Since some years ago, weed has been my best friend... so im never lonely when i smoke... even when i smoke alone. :jointsmile:
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