I think every man should know how to kiss well. And every man should know the female anatomy and how it works. After that, every man ought to be wise enough to know that women are unique individuals who like different things. The smart, secure guys know to ask what we like instead of cockily assuming it's going to be what they think it is. So you may hear a lot of different answers here, Coelho, but if you're a really wise inquisitive man, you'll ask the lady of the moment that you're getting close to, not a bunch of perfect strangers on a Web forum.