Im so sorry to hear that EE2000, it's so hard to watch a loved one slip away. I lost my nan to cancer a few years ago, watching her go like that fucking killed me. The only thing that helped me was being with my family and girlfriend sharing the highs and lows. If you can try to go and see him, you may regret it later in life and you don't want that hanging over you.

My thoughts are with you and yours,

Peace

Buddy
buddymyfriend Reviewed by buddymyfriend on . Waiting for death. Hi, What do you do, when you know someone that you love and care about is dying? When you know that they are not going to get better, and all you can do is wait for the phone to ring and the person on the other end is telling you that the person died. I am having a hard time dealing with the knowledge that my dad is dying and that there is nothing that I can do. I am hundreds of miles away and I can't miss any more work to be with him, I can miss work just cant afford it. Just Rating: 5