I for one am tired of the door holding argument. I have never in my life railed at a man for holding the door for me, and I don't personally know any woman who has. I think it's some sort of troglodyte urban legend, like saying black people eat babies.

It's just plain common courtesy to hold a door open. I do it for anyone, and when people do it for me, I am appreciative and show the proper gratitude.