I don't disagree with feminism, tho I do disagree with its name. I understand that when the movement first started, it must be called something to bring awareness to the cause, but I feel the name is outdated. Women now have the same rights as men. Are they discriminated against? Yes. But they do have equal rights, as far as I know. I used to call myself an equalitist because of this. Humanist is a great term that I'm surprised that I've never heard until reading this thread, it fits me quite well.

I equate feminists with the extreme side, the women who tell other women that they're "setting [women] back 20 years" because they pose in a bikini. Equal rights doesn't mean that a woman has to uphold a certain standard, that's the exact opposite of equal rights. A woman doesn't have to do something because a "feminist" says it's what she should be doing. That's not worse that a woman having doing something because a man tells her to do something. Equal rights is about having the freedom to do what anyone else on earth can do, if you so choose. If you can't do them because of your own personal limitations, that's fine, as long as you have the choice to attempt it. I personally can't give birth, but that's a physical limitation, not because "women won't let me", and that's fine.

I also disagree with "feminists" telling me that I'll never understand what they go through as women because I'm a man.