Good decision but make sure you do the following:

1. Keep an even keel when relating to your ex-wife in front of your daughters. Be civil; act like friends.

2. Keep in touch with your daughters and do NOT make them be messengers to your ex-wife.

3. Send money but send more love than you do money.

You should be okay. Keep your chin up and remember to be a responsible adult setting a good example for your kids.
TheSmokingMonkey Reviewed by TheSmokingMonkey on . I need advice..seriously OK. Where do I start? I have been married now almost 14 years...We have split up twice during that time. One time it was for almost 2 years. I have this huge obligation inside of me (which I hate) to be here for my daughters. I do not love my wife at all in a passionate sense. I love her for who she is (mother of my children) but really nothing else. I have tried to love her. I have went to counseling, Landmark Forum, extensive talks. Nothing helps. I am giving up. Our sex life is non existent Rating: 5