Thanks Birdgirl...

My wife still does love me, but there is just nothing she can do or say that can change my feelings...

As far as my daughters go, I am very, very tight with them. I have always been there for everything with them. I continually teach them about reality and the world and want them to grow up to be completely independent women who will rely on no one to survive.
I will be driving across country with my dad next week in a moving van pulling his truck. So, my perspectives on things may change, but I do feel that NOW is the right time.
geonagual Reviewed by geonagual on . I need advice..seriously OK. Where do I start? I have been married now almost 14 years...We have split up twice during that time. One time it was for almost 2 years. I have this huge obligation inside of me (which I hate) to be here for my daughters. I do not love my wife at all in a passionate sense. I love her for who she is (mother of my children) but really nothing else. I have tried to love her. I have went to counseling, Landmark Forum, extensive talks. Nothing helps. I am giving up. Our sex life is non existent Rating: 5