Sometimes you just need to admit that you CANNOT fix things yourself, and at that point there is no shame in seeking professional help (not a hired goon). Ask your mother if she would pay for some counseling sessions, or pay for them yourself if you have a job, or talk to a counsellor at school. After a few sessions, ask your mother to join in a session or two. Then the therapist will make sure your mother doesn't scream at you and make sure you don't tirade against her.

It is obvious that you both love each other and mostly just need a neutral environment to work through issues. I wish you the best of luck, and my heart goes out to you and your mother. You will both be in my thoughts and prayers.
cfvgcfvg Reviewed by cfvgcfvg on . Having a hard time with my mom shes an amazing mom because she is always there for me. but as a person she is shit. utter complete shit. she is absolutely closed off to any and all of my thoughts, im sure because she doesnt like what i have to say. what i have to say to her is constructive criticism, but she is to blinded by anger and delusions of respect and age to see that. she takes humongous offense to anything i have to say that is negative about her and she should try to change. she becomes shut off to me and her anger Rating: 5