Having a hard time with my mom

[cfvgcfvg]

Sometimes you just need to admit that you CANNOT fix things yourself, and at that point there is no shame in seeking professional help (not a hired goon). Ask your mother if she would pay for some counseling sessions, or pay for them yourself if you have a job, or talk to a counsellor at school. After a few sessions, ask your mother to join in a session or two. Then the therapist will make sure your mother doesn't scream at you and make sure you don't tirade against her.

It is obvious that you both love each other and mostly just need a neutral environment to work through issues. I wish you the best of luck, and my heart goes out to you and your mother. You will both be in my thoughts and prayers.

[newbieb]

why dont you just shut up leave your mom alone. she is who she is, and leave her alone.

[MagicalHerb]

i love you all

[Matt the Funk]

Well dude, I can actually say my mom use to be like this, she use to hit me over it too. Stupid random shit like not knowing where the groceries are. I dunno what happened but this phase passed after my brother became 3. It still comes out from time to time but for the most part she has it under control. Just try your best to deal with it. Hopefully she chills.

[Plastic Jesus]

Everytime I see "Hard time with my mom", I chuckle, I mean doesn't anybody else see it... how bout difficult... but not hard and mom... nevermind.

[Skink]

Parents just don't understand...

[Reefer Rogue]

Kids say the darndest things...

[lazy smoker7]

I understand where you are coming from, now understand where she is coming from.

She does not want to take advice from you.
I think she made that pretty clear by ignoring what you say, is it right or wrong, who knows, i personally feel like a parent should be able to learn from a child, as the learning process is never over.
But when push comes to shove she is your mother, and as long as she is taking care of you and doing her motherly thing, she could be shooting smack into her eyeballs and you have no 'right' to say anything otherwise.

When you get older, and more independent, it will be easier for you to have the talks you desire with your mother. Just wait it out.


Stinky, although i see what you are saying, let the kids vent. espeically when they can not do it at home

what do you mean as a kid living under my parents and my parent are shooting up smack.. i have no right to tell them not to.. We as the son or daughter have every right in the world to tell are parents to stop shooting up smack if they are , our parents. I dont want my parents to die to shooting up smack and influence me and put me around those types of temptations.. So if your still lving under your parents and if there shooting up shit.. You have every right in the world to try to stop them and try to help them .. i mean you dont have to stop them because if they wanna shoot up smack they can but you have every right "RIGHT in the world to confront your parents about it. And I believe in equal treatment between parents and thier kids. If they dont want to even try to talk to me and listen to my advice.. Why should I listen to their hipocritical ass then if they dont want to try listening to my advice but in return they want me to listen to their advice. I can feal were this kids frustration comes if hes trying to help his mother and she dosent even want to be open minded...