Quote Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat
Put out the joint, go back to your parents', get a GED, find a job, get an apartment and forget the girl.
That may sound mean, but I agree with it 100%. Your only 18, I understand you love her, but sometimes that isn't enough. If you haven't even gotten your GED, you won't be able to many jobs. Most likely you will be washing dishes, waiting tables, fast food, store clerk, or some other crappy and poorly paid job.

Her kids aren't your reponsibilty and you are to young to be involved with a women who is still technically married to another man. Leave that to the men in there 30's. Not to mention he is paying for you to live with his wife! It sounds like a situation that can blow up at any minute.

My best advice is to heed Breuk, move in with your parents, get your GED, find a job, and than maybe meet with her for coffee if you so choose. I'm not saying it is an easy thing to do, but it sounds like the smartest...

Unfortunately if she is pregnant with your kid, you are in a different situation than the one above.
JaggedEdge Reviewed by JaggedEdge on . my current situation i moved in with my girlfriend in december of last year. man i don't even know where to start. i love her and her two kids more than anything in the entire world...she is still legally married to an asshole of a person who left her and her two kids after she kicked him out after he beat the shit out of her and hit her oldest kid, who's only fucking 5 years old. he is in arizona now, and after he left i moved in with her. he still pays the rent. except for this month. we got an eviction notice Rating: 5