my current situation

[mirvana]

i moved in with my girlfriend in december of last year. man i don't even know where to start. i love her and her two kids more than anything in the entire world...she is still legally married to an asshole of a person who left her and her two kids after she kicked him out after he beat the shit out of her and hit her oldest kid, who's only fucking 5 years old. he is in arizona now, and after he left i moved in with her. he still pays the rent. except for this month. we got an eviction notice today, and me, i don't even have any money to pay it, i have no job even though i have been looking for months. i dropped out of high school a few months ago, so that's hard. no one views the relationship i have with her a good thing, seeing as though i am only 18 and she just turned 25. i guess that maybe that the whole age difference thing isn't great, but i really fucking love her and her kids. that's a different story. i need advice. when my girlfriend called the apartment office to talk to them about the eviction, they told her that they had just gotten a check for rent today. the thing is, if she were to get evicted, i would have to move back in with my parents, right? and she would move back in with hers. her parents are moving to florida too. were are in ohio. if he hadn't payed the rent she would have moved to florida and her stupid parents wouldn't let me go to. i bet no one loves ANYONE like i love her and her two kids....i don't know what i would fucking do if i couldn't see her....

we can't keep depending on her husband that's in arizona to pay the rent, yet she is the only one working, she can't do it by herself.

don't call me lazy because i don't have a job.

i've been looking nonstop for i don't know how long, and that's just today.

i'm so scared that he won't pay rent for this month...


i don't want to lose her...

i really don't want to lose her...

well that's about it.

thanks for listening.

please, if you're going to be rude, don't post.

i just needed to get that out...

ima go smoke.

please. any advice at all........

mirvana Reviewed by mirvana on 03-08-2007. my current situation i moved in with my girlfriend in december of last year. man i don't even know where to start. i love her and her two kids more than anything in the entire world...she is still legally married to an asshole of a person who left her and her two kids after she kicked him out after he beat the shit out of her and hit her oldest kid, who's only fucking 5 years old. he is in arizona now, and after he left i moved in with her. he still pays the rent. except for this month. we got an eviction notice Rating: 5

[yoda]

even if its physical labor, gotta find some kind of job....being with a mature woman with children means great responsibility.

[mirvana]

oh yeah---she might be pregnant, too....

[Jaerl]

(Not trying to be mean) But if you have no money, and no job, how do you afford Marijuana? (One of the more expensive hobbies around)

[mirvana]

i don't buy it.

my friend lets me toke up for free.

that would be retarded if i was using money for pot rather than other important responsibilities.

[Breukelen advocaat]

Put out the joint, go back to your parents', get a GED, find a job, get an apartment and forget the girl.

[Jaerl]

Put out the joint, go back to your parents', get a GED, find a job, get an apartment and forget the girl.

If he really loves her he would/could NEVER do that... at least not the (forget the girl) part

[mirvana]

you're fucking cold.
i understand what is important. i know i've fucked up.

but i really fucking love her.

[mirvana]

thank you Jaerl.

[Breukelen advocaat]

you're fucking cold.
i understand what is important. i know i've fucked up.

but i really fucking love her.

Another one will come along. You're not thinking correctly. You're setting yourself up for big time problems if you stay with her. Believe me, move out now before you're in hot water. I don't know you, but I'm telling you advice that I would give a friend.

This whole thing only means one thing for you: TROUBLE.