my current situation

[SwirlyMass]

Get a job in construction, it will make you into a real man. It will also teach you the real value of a dollar, especially when that dollars comes directly out of YOU and your body.

SwirlyMass Reviewed by SwirlyMass on 03-08-2007. my current situation i moved in with my girlfriend in december of last year. man i don't even know where to start. i love her and her two kids more than anything in the entire world...she is still legally married to an asshole of a person who left her and her two kids after she kicked him out after he beat the shit out of her and hit her oldest kid, who's only fucking 5 years old. he is in arizona now, and after he left i moved in with her. he still pays the rent. except for this month. we got an eviction notice Rating: 5

[smokealot123]

oh yeah---she might be pregnant, too....

omg again just read this she WAS pregnant but they got an abortion and now there might be another 1.

[mirvana]

no my name does not start with a "d".


i completely understand what is best for me.

i know i should worry about myself.

i know that this situation could "blow up at any minute"

i don't care if he shows up.

let him.

he's fucking retarded. i'd kick his ass anyways.

but she is the one.

there has to be a way. i'm doing everything i can to find a job. i didn't even go to sleep last night. as soon as i get a shitty job i'm going to save up for my GED. then possibly college or a trade school.

i may be only 18, but i fucking know. i know for a fucking fact she is the one.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

if you know "she is the one" then why are you here?

Get a job.
deal with it.
end.

[thatman]

You are a kid whose taking on a mans job. Its not smart for you or for her.

You obviously did not meet her between her husband hitting her and moving out.

Unless it was love at first sight , your just setting yourself to fail at life.

She has 2(3) children , your a highschool dropout your combined income is tiny(if you cant pay the rent).

What type of relationship can you have while struggling to feed yourselves.

To be totally honest , I think theirs more to the story. Usually domestic abusers dont leave town and STILL pay for their wives housing it just doesn't make sense.

Anyways , I have friends and relatives who have made mistakes similar to yours , dont do it for marijuana sake.

[mirvana]

just got a call from delphi.

got a job in a factory, 9-5.

$12.55/hr.

not frickin bad. benefits, too...

things just might work out.

oh. and there isn't more to the story.

he's just a retard....the guy in arizona, i mean.

yes. definitely love at first sight.

and babyfacedabortion: fergie is fucking gangster.

[Mean Green Charlene]

Worrrrking 9-5 dodododo. My mom sings that song.

[HippyGoneWild]

for this 25 yr old woman.Because if it isn't and you commit with undying affection , you're in for a world of hurt.Not trying to buzzkill ,but if your a stop gap in this soap opera you have to have your head on straight and see what the future has in store for you and the new "ready made family".
Yes it's cool that you've secured employment but there are many other issues ahead.Parenting 3 kids that aren't yours are my main concern .This kind of scenario is very sketchy to say the least.The ex will not like another man fathering his kids and might fuckin lose it any time.:chainsaw: You may waste your youth screwin around with this mess,instead of enjoying the last yrs. of blissful life of being a kid before you have to actually grow up.Imho,Peace and good luck man(you're gonna need it) :thumbsup:

[benagain]

Crap man. I hope it all works out for the best but it sounds pretty shitty.
You're 18?
It sounds like you're giving up a significant portion of your life to go work at a factory. That sucks.
You'll be 50 and still broke before you know it. I hope I'm wrong and wish you guys the best of luck

[Skrappie]

Well if you're not getting a job, at least go back to school.

Things don't magically get better in the future hombre. They stay the same, or without preventive maintaince(which you don't seem to be doing, seeing as you are jobless, without formal education, broke, and toke) get worse.

Don't let things get worse man.