not having parents
having my brother murdered
having my son
having to watch my wife lay in pain with a broken leg (femur of all the bones... the fuckin hardest to break) after being slammed into a brick wall by a car
growing up
working (kinda goes along with growing up, learning what my actions ended up costing other people)
getting married
going from rich to poor (we were never really 'rich' as the money wasn't technically ours, but when i was way littler my grandma had over 10 credit cards... then a bunch more like the jc penny's card, sears card, conns card, lowes card, home depot card that type of shit, credit cards that only work in said store)

just a few.