You guys are a tough crowd. Look heres the deal, We all look for different things in a partner. Is it wrong for me to want my partner to be attractive? I mean I take care of myself physically fit, eat right, plain and simple I treat my body as the temple that it is. Yeah nobody is perfect duh no brainer and I am not looking for perfection or a barbie doll made out of plastic blah blah, I am just wanting compatibility. With me what you see is what you get both physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritualy, yeah I have lied and been deceptive anyone that hasnt may you cast the first stone. When this girl had sent these pictures she was physically attractive to me in those pictures, then as we grew into getting to know one another more intimately I also started to think she was emotionally stable, smart funny and really it was like this was to good to be true. So there were other factors that played into my attraction to this girl. The bottom line is I was lied to. If she was willing to lie to me in the beginning then she will lie again bottom line. Its like when a spouse cheats on the other it will never be the same. I am not going to start a relationship that was built on sand. I am open and I am honest simply put I dont fuck around I am a straight shooter. I am getting to old for bullshit drama games and lies. I am a forgiving man, as I forgave this girl but I stand firm on my beliefs. I want honesty not lies. Thats the fuckin problem with this world people lie to get what they want and if they have to piss on a few people to get it they will, I realize this isnt a utopia world we live in and that sometimes we have to chew the shit and smile but whatever happened to the fucking core values of our times.

Peace