no, it is not wrong to want to be physically attracted to someone...but it is wrong to not like someone because of their features, someone who you said you liked....i stand by that if you really liked her, how she looked would not have mattered...i met my husband here, (who is several years younger and very good looking, fit, etc) in chat..the first time he saw me, he wasnt knocked off his feet, but it didnt matter because he liked who the person was INSIDE....we tend to see people differently when looking with our heart rather than our eyes....over time, he changed some things for me, i lost over 100 pounds for him, and now we are both HOT.............i think the lying about how she looked, is minor..the way you presented it, you deserved all the comments that were given..you came off very superficial..i am sorry you dont see it that way..people are what is inside my friend, our body is just a rental...i bet you are missing out on a lot of good women....