I'm divorced, engaged to be married in September. So I'm singleISH. Both my kids (8 and 5) know I grow, because they are nosey little heifers. The older one knows what it is, the younger one just knows mama has plants in the closet, and she isn't to talk about it. She's fiercely loyal to me, so I don't sweat it. The older one knows I could go to jail for it, and she adores me, so I don't sweat her either. Good girls. My stepsons don't know, and I'll never tell them. They don't have a lick of sense.