Quote Originally Posted by 1chronic
Your suggestion makes sense for a normal girlfriend. But my special lady will say if you want me to be happy then leave it alone. She looks for every turn around point to try and get an issue she doesn't want to talk about dropped. But how can I let her carry this on her own?
I have my own painful childhood issues.... and it took a LONG time for me to open up about it (even now, there are only a small handful of people that know). Point is this: As badly as you want to help her, you simply can't even she isn't ready. This is her issue, and wanting to share it with her is extremely kind, but it's her decision that you need to respect and try not to take it personally.

If you see that her life is suffering in anyway because she won't open up, perhaps she would consider talking to a therapist in private... someone who doesn't know her.... that will be confidential..... and she can start to gain strength that way?

I'm sorry that she is going through this.... whatever happened has left her feeling embarrassed/angry/scared/ashamed...... or something... so she needs to first take the blame off of herself whatever the case was.

I wish you both well...... good luck.
beautiful disaster Reviewed by beautiful disaster on . Problem. Mostly looking for Ladies opinions. Okay, this doesn't really have anything to do with sexuality really other then it's my girlfriend who I'm having a problem with. But alot of mature people come in this section so I figured it was the best place. this might be kinda long but I need help. The problem: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for just over 2 years. We've talked about love, we've even talked about marriage. But theres one thing she won't tell me and that's why she is anti-Pot. I know there is a good reason for it Rating: 5