Quote Originally Posted by napolitana869
Be there for L as a friend. That means dont sleep with her, even if she wants you to. You can be a good role model in that childs life by respecting its mother and being there to help out if they need it. Kind of like an uncle or something. If you really love K dont mess around with other girls in the mean time. You may think "well I'm young and horny" but bringing a third person into the situation will make it harder for you and K to get back together. Things like that hurt girls. A lot. It may even make it harder for her to get clean. I think you made the right choice by breaking up with her until she gets clean though. If your relationship was strong enough maybe that could be the push she needs to get her life in order. Good Luck.
thats the exact word i used today when i talked to her

"i could be more like an uncle or somethin"

great minds think alike ainit