Bad situation

[JeenYuss]

so i posted this on sum1s thread about girl problems... and while i was typing this i finally noticed how fucked up it was...

ex: "lizzy" whom will now be known as "subject-L"
ex: "aleigha" whom will now be known as "subject-A"
ex: "krystal" now "subject-K"

subject-L and i dated casually or whatever hung out for several months had a decent relationship an shit but i got locked up and when i got out she had another man and i was clownin wit other females etc. so we kind of grew apart that way but to this day shes still one of my closest friends

never gotten over me, tries to get with me every chance possible

i asked subject-a out an we talked on tha phone, texted etc. for like a week an a half, we never had ANYTHING physical i never so much as kissed the girl, so she hears rumors of me cheating on her with subject-k and dumps me, very very very regrettable decision, and to this day she still tells me it was one of her worst decisions of her life

so anyways basically same thing on a worse scale she got depressed and trippin over me, affected really badly emotionally, gave up on men/dating for a few months, etc.

now shes mostly over me and moved on and is also one of my closest female friends

after subject-a and i broke up i got with subject-k and we mainly just drank and fucked a lot for maybe 4-5 months, somehow fell in love but this time it was both ways instead of one-way

broke up with her yesterday because of heavy use of white nasal narcotics

contemplating going back to subject-L

the twist: she's pregnant with that other dudes baby

im 100% sure that as soon as subject-k can get her nose clean(pun intended ) we will get back together (we both are very clear on how much we are in love with each other and want to spend our lives together)

ok now does anybody have any advice, questions, concerns, similar situations, etc.

and if i go back with subject-L, become a father figure in the child's life, would that be wrong to do, and then get back with subject-k at a later point? what type of effect would this have on the child? on the mother even? etc. i'd b glad to hear what my fellow cannabis users have to say

JeenYuss Reviewed by JeenYuss on 03-01-2007. Bad situation so i posted this on sum1s thread about girl problems... and while i was typing this i finally noticed how fucked up it was... ex: "lizzy" whom will now be known as "subject-L" ex: "aleigha" whom will now be known as "subject-A" ex: "krystal" now "subject-K" subject-L and i dated casually or whatever hung out for several months had a decent relationship an shit but i got locked up and when i got out she had another man and i was clownin wit other females etc. so we kind of grew apart Rating: 5

[Matt the Funk]

Wait wait wait, how old are you dude? haha. Anyways just go with "subject k", she seems cool. Don't even bother with the other chick dude, that's just like fucked up, I wouldn't get myself involved.

[JeenYuss]

i just turned 16

subject A and L are 15

subject k is 17

[JeenYuss]

the thing is subject L is one of my closest friends, closer than most of my guy friends and i care about her a lot, she was jus wit 1 of my best friends an he broke up wit her cuz she had that other dudes baby in her, an shes going thru a LOT a bull shit in her life right now i dont need to go into details

yes im sticking with subject k in the end but for now would it be good or bad to get with subject L for a while? im trying to find her a good b/f that'll treat her right an shit but those are pretty hard to find

what im planning on doing is spending time and shit wit subject L but i dont want her thinking that we're "together" or have any thoughts of anything long-term

and fuck subject A when she comes back (she recently moved to denver and is coming for spring break in like 3 weeks)

[Matt the Funk]

Well dude this is a pretty weird situation. I say you should help L out, but seems like you really like K man. And A I guess yeah you should just mess around with her. But deffinatley try to help out L if she is your friend.

[couch-potato]

Help out whomever you can, when you can.

Otherwise, don't worry about love yet... you gotta a shitload of life ahead of you

[Professor Dan K.]

Help out whomever you can, when you can.

Otherwise, don't worry about love yet... you gotta a shitload of life ahead of you

yea seriously, thats a lot of commitment to make at the age of 16.

[Samwhore]

support L as a friend, help K get clean and then see what happens with you and K then.

Do not try to be the babys daddy, when you leave, L and the baby will be torn and pissed off.

If you feel love with K, might as well make the most of it:thumbsup:

[higher4hockey]

and these fucked up police! its about coming up and staying on top and screamin 1-8-7 on a motherfucking cop.

havent heard that song in ages

[JetFoi34]

be that good friend of L you say you are, and wait for K to get clean - if you do really think you and K have something going on, dont throw A into the equation