Quote Originally Posted by chisme
if they were your friends it wouldnt matter what u did as long as it made u happy......tell em that hopefully it might help
You see that's not really true, a friendship is based on liking someone and having common interests. From what the OP has stated his friends have been around him in his sober days and drunken/high days. They obviously met him in his sober days and that's where the friendship started where they had a lot in common. But now he is constantly drunk and high (so his friends say) he isn't the same guy anymore. That's why they gave him the option, cos' they do care and want him back. If I were the OP I'd tell them I won't smoke as much and not when we go out to do stuff.


Of course all of what I said could e wrong.....Of Course!!