I know what you guys mean when you say it just feels so much better to come clean with some shit.

My mom knows that I smoke, and grow, and she is generally ok with it. She has some concerns about being busted and kicked out of my apartment building, you know, motherly concerns.lol

My dad on the other hand, is clueless about everything. I think he knows that I smoke though, because sometimes when I spend the night at his place (I do that every so often, even though I don't live at home anymore) I come in high and it's probably pretty obvious. He has always been the non-confrontational type, he will imply something but never say it. I really want to tell him that I smoke (I don't think I could ever tell him I grow), but I am worried he won't listen to a word I say. He is very closeminded, and I would bet my life that he is extremely anti-cannabis. I wish I could talk some sense into him, and actually be honest but I can't see that happening.