Thanks KD, as always, for your wisdom!

Yeah, this has been a time of MAJOR personal growth for me.

In the last year I have:
-Been arrested
-Had my house broken into 3 times
-Found my live-in BF in shall we say a comprimising position when I came home early from work
-Had said BF steal from me, trash my house, and run over my ankle with his Blazer
-Broken down my beloved grow room
-Confessed my big secret to my boss and father
-and met the man of my dreams...

Not the life I had expected; me, a mousy nerdy state worker with a mortgage, a college degree, and a station wagon in the driveway, but DAMN I wouldn't trade it for anything.