Im sorry to hear that tallulah lupus aint so known but it effects allot of people last year hip hop pioneer J dilla died of lupus,

I understnad how u feel u feel worthless cos u cant help, but just bein there for ur mom is the best thing u can do,

ur obviously a great son/daughter (sorry) i hope ur mother feels better soon and there aint any complications.

Has your mom tried pot to ease the chronic pain?