Awkwardness

[ReUp]

Is it ever possible to tell a good friend of yours that you have feelings for her and it not be awkward afterward? I'm running on about a 10% chance of success her but hoping for a miracle. If it happens than I'll be the happiest man ever. If not I don't want it to be awkward but assume it will be. I feel kind of selfish basically sacrificing a friendship because I 'like' someone. Meh Any chance a rejection could turn out in any positive way?

ReUp Reviewed by ReUp on 02-27-2007. Awkwardness Is it ever possible to tell a good friend of yours that you have feelings for her and it not be awkward afterward? I'm running on about a 10% chance of success her but hoping for a miracle. If it happens than I'll be the happiest man ever. If not I don't want it to be awkward but assume it will be. I feel kind of selfish basically sacrificing a friendship because I 'like' someone. Meh Any chance a rejection could turn out in any positive way? Rating: 5

[napolitana869]

theres a pretty good chance it will be akward. If she rejects you at least you'll never have to wonder what could have been

[ReUp]

Ha sounds good in theory...

[Jack the Tripper]

Dude, I went through a situation very similar to this a couple years back... I also made the same mistake you're about to make, lol. But fear not, for I am here to help you.

If you don't already, start going out with her alone. Just ask her to go see a movie, or something.

Once you've been out a few times together, if nothing has happened, kiss her. Although stereotypical, the doorstep is a good place to do this. Telling a friend that you like them is always awkward, no matter what, even if they feel the same way. A kiss, on the other hand, will go over very well if she feels the same wa, and she probably does :hippy: peace

[ReUp]

Dude, I went through a situation very similar to this a couple years back... I also made the same mistake you're about to make, lol. But fear not, for I am here to help you.

If you don't already, start going out with her alone. Just ask her to go see a movie, or something.

Once you've been out a few times together, if nothing has happened, kiss her. Although stereotypical, the doorstep is a good place to do this. Telling a friend that you like them is always awkward, no matter what, even if they feel the same way. A kiss, on the other hand, will go over very well if she feels the same wa, and she probably does :hippy: peace

Thanks bro. It's a crazy situation.

[iPot]

Yeah it'll be awkward, but its already awkward isn't it? Always best to tell her. She might reject you, but if she is worth it she'll still be your friend afterwards and probably respect you more. All I can advise is don't shower her with gifts or try to pull a romantic stunt, just tell her. I reccomend picking a light hearted moment to drop a hint, women pick up on these things and you are more likely to get an honest response. She'll come to you if she wants to, or not.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

It's always awkward. You just have to deal with it and laugh it off..

[Genuine17]

I actually did this like 2 weeks ago instead of asking her out tell her you like a lot, this is what i said and i got turned down but o well haha i dated her a year ago and i want her back.
"your much better looking than <name> your own of the prettiest and nicest girls i know thats probably why i really like you."

maybe a bad move but o well

[Samwhore]

awkward, ive done it, things arent the same anymore...

[higher4hockey]

a wise man (gretzky)once said : you miss 100% of the shots you dont take.