I think the first step to becoming a more "spritual" person is a self analysis. Do you treat others the way you would want to be treated? Are you willing to change parts of you that may need to be changed? But even more than that I would pray. Ask God to reveal to you what that means? Ask God to reveal himself or herself to you. (I personally beleive God is neither male or female). I wish you the best....Peace :jointsmile: