i'm 42yrs & i will admit than i am dirty(young)man. age is in the mind, of course once all your joints stop working & all ur teeth r gone ur mind along with it, then ur old. i love women of all ages, legal of course, but relationships not of sexual nature do need to be able to talk & if there is too much of an age diff. there will have to be some creativity on each persons part in order to have meaningfull conversations. my wife & i swing but not often, she's more bi & likes women not another cpl so that is a little restrictive, but we do have alot of similar likes, other than women! r