umm thanks for the help guys....

ive tried all the converters i can find, 3gp, free ipod converter, videora, super, ipoddrop... ill try the cinemaforge.

but until then does anyone else know any solutions or why it might be doing this? i left my computer on for 2 days so it can convert about 20 videos without disturbance, and i come back to see all but the first one to have bad A/V sync