Quote Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777
I view marrage as a contract. its just a piece of paper stating that you will abide by what you say. lots of people get married without love, there are many reasons people marry........... money just to name one.
I don't understand how people view marriage as "just a piece of paper". Yes, it is a contract, but it is more than just a physical contract. It is also an emotional contract between the two people, and this emotional contract is one of the most important that people will ever enter into their entire lives.

Additionally, I want my partner to be happy too, and he wants me to be happy. And there are times that I look at men and lust intensely after them, but I do not need to be with them. It would not make me any happier to fuck someone else then it would to fuck my partner, and it would in fact make me happiest to just spend hours fucking my partner.

We don't get bored in bed together, and we don't get bored in life together. I cannot see how my life would benefit from swinging, and neither can he.