Quote Originally Posted by Gatekeeper777
as it is said in the bible.... if you lust after them in your heart then so you have had relations with them, ...... so in effect even tho you wanna.. according to god you allready did. so if your goona get nailed with the sin, ya might as well nail someone else. I use the bible as i see it touted alot around here.
God bless us all everyone.
"As it said in the Bible..."

Okay, but you are a Wiccan, and I don't run my life according to the Bible, so that doesn't ring true for me. I can appreciate the beauty of another human being's body without having "had relations" with them in my mind.


Quote Originally Posted by JeenYuss
marriage is nothing but a contract

marrying someone has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with loving somebody

im going to love my girl regardless of whether a little piece of paper says i do or not
Okay, I agree. The actual piece of paper stating the marriage is not the contract I mean. I believe in rights for homosexuals, and respect that even if the government doesn't recognize their union they are still wed.

However, the contract I am talking about is an EMOTIONAL one. It can be made by any people at any time, but the most common time is as the same time as the actual marriage. This is a contract between the two people, agreeing to love and care for and protect and respect the other.

That is the contract I am talking about, not the marriage license.