I dont think my wife and I have anything special that most couple dont have.
I just have the desire to let her be happy.
you say you dont have the least bit of a twinge to be with someone else?
thats nice and very special but not normal. Most people look but not touch.
Most people that do look think about touching and those that think about touching dwell apon it and play out several senarios in their minds eye.
And some of those people even still go ahead and touch with or without permission from their significant other. pollygamy is nothing new.
i know 3 sets of married couples that live in the same house hold. All 3 couples are childless by choice. and they all sleep together.
the wife of one may sleep wherever she feels like.
I call it a CUM UNE. lol
but anyhow, the bond that hold us together is that we care enough about each other to let ourseloves explore life and ALL it has to offer and not be afraid of change, we are not possesive of one another. BTW we did not take the traditional vows of marrage that was santified by the church. Since we BOTH dont belive in a GOD we made up our own vows. God was not in them.
So even tho i let her get shagged by men and she lets me shag the ladies we still are not breaking OUR vows we Made on our special day, and our marrage works for us and our style of living.