Cool shit dude my advice would be:
-keep doing what you're doing, which is "being supportive"--I use this term lightly. Don't overdo it.
-do NOT allow her to become dependant on you for emotional support. She probably has tons of other friends other than you, so spread it around! lol. Let her know that you're there for her, and that's it...if you ignore this advice, you will no longer be her friend...you'll become her girlfriend lol. Obviously, you do not want this to happen if you still want at LEAST the POSSIBILITY of you two hooking-up.
-see/date other people. Paradoxically, if you wait around for her to "come to her senses" , she won't. But if you get out there, and treat Julia as if she were one of your guy-buddies, the odds are way better that she'll start seeing you as more than a friend........that is, if you want that to happen hehe
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00Ampersand Reviewed by 00Ampersand on . Comforting a Girl who has been hurt I'm in a confusing situation right now and could use anybody's experience and suggestions. My best friend Julia just got screwed over royally. A couple weeks ago she started to liked this guy and eventually started talking to him on the phone more and visiting him more. I could tell that she really felt special about this guy. This guy was so lucky to have Julia's affection, so I respected him in a sense, because any guy that Julia would look fondly upon had to be a good guy. However, more Rating: 5