well, first I'd like to say that I feel for this situation man...been there, done that--and even though it's a common one, it's not always a simple one to get through.
What I think you have to realize though is:
a)whether or not she's a good enough friend that you'd be willing to keep the status quo..
b), whether or not you want to make an attempt at being "more than friends", (while running the risk of losing this friendship with her).
I'll check up on this and see what your thoughts are
~007~