Comforting a Girl who has been hurt

[jacquelyne]

Yeah, we've discussed this and I've told that if she didn't want anything more than a friendship I would be fine with that. If I can't be her boyfriend, I just want to be someone who is always there for her. She has told me that she does have feelings for me, but just doesn't know what she want at the moment. She also said no to rule out anything that could happen in the future. We have such a strong connection with each other that I think becoming "more than friends" would only take what we have now to a higher level. I'm not planning on actively pursuing this in the near future. I just want her to realize it.

Smokey u are very sweet u have a kind heart there should be more like you around

jacquelyne Reviewed by jacquelyne on 12-07-2004. Comforting a Girl who has been hurt I'm in a confusing situation right now and could use anybody's experience and suggestions. My best friend Julia just got screwed over royally. A couple weeks ago she started to liked this guy and eventually started talking to him on the phone more and visiting him more. I could tell that she really felt special about this guy. This guy was so lucky to have Julia's affection, so I respected him in a sense, because any guy that Julia would look fondly upon had to be a good guy. However, more Rating: 5

[jaycarroll]

yea just be there for her now but tommorow shes gonna be with someone else and he'll probably be another asshole so whats the right thing to do i think you should tell her what you think if you think the guy aint good enough for her tell her and if it turns out he wasnt then she'll know your only looking out for her and have her best interests at heart and also i think you should ask her how does she feel about you could she ever see herself with you and if she says yes then cool ye can work on it and hopefully be together but if she says no then you'll know where you stand but your never gonna know unless you sit down and speak with the girl this is just what i think whatever happens best a luck jay