yeah, actually i'd say carpenter ants, i know they're in my house. as for someone trying to get rid of my plants, well there's just my mom, and she ate some of the "special" brownies i made on 4/20 with me, so i don't think it's her. anyways, here's the pics horror business requested like...weeks ago.

i figure the plant is a little over 3 weeks now. also, i'm not sure how early you can sex them, but i think it's female based on what i see at the branch splits. that's what the second pic shows, the little (what i think are) female parts that are on each split. if i'm wrong, let me know...