Quote Originally Posted by Mrs. Greenjeans
So why are you guys married? Tax break? I never have understood the reasoning behind swinging. Do you let other people drive your car too?

edit to say: As for Demeter's issue, there are many things she can do about it. What she should not do, is hump a strange dick about it.
the real swingers love the other one, it has nothing to do really with wanting to be with other people (i foudn out all this at about 11, watching real sex on hbo lmao) it's just something new to try... both partners really fucking have to be up to it.. if there's a slight bit of jealousy, it will destory the both of you) and even tho they'r efucking othe rpeople (basicly) they still both love each other unconditionally... kinda really hard to understand i gues (cuz i don't even understand it lol... i don't care if i was allowed to fuck some other girl, my wife got in bed with another dude, i'd be whippin out the machette) but it has nothing ot do with anything on a relationship, ti's all about personal sexual pleasure.. and it's not like you can go calling up other people on a boot call... you both go 'do it' at the same time, and ontop of that, it's almost always in the same room/house..