Spicing up a 10 year marriage

[Gatekeeper777]

That's a bit of a leap, don't you think? Gosh, if it's only sex, then why bother actually fixing it at all? Why not just give up?

I think sleeping with other people should be a last resort, not the first thing you try. That's not spicy, that's full on habanero.

What is the point of being married if you're going to swing? Is it just so you have somebody to split the bills with?

I swing with my wife and its a bigger turn on to see the significant other being pleasured then what you would think.
but hey, its not for everyone.
and the chicks are freaky.lol
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Gatekeeper777 Reviewed by Gatekeeper777 on 02-25-2007. Spicing up a 10 year marriage I love my husband with all my heart, but even when we met, it wasn't really chemistry that attracted me- it was all about who he was. Now, after 10 years together, never rollicking to start with, our sex life has dwindled to once every two weeks or so. We are definately in a slump! There are other contributing factors - menopause, Prozac (which is why I stopped taking it!) long hours working, etc. Besides that, neither of us makes a move, for me it's because I don't much feel the desire, and Rating: 5