go somewhere fun
make plans to escape , just the two of you
make plans to have good times together
he likes to drink so maybe you could get drunk together
take a walk and make fun of weird people
go somewhere lake a lake or waterfall and just sit and talk
all that crap leads to good sex which leads to a happy spouse

if that dont work out then its time to call it quits
find a new lover and enjoy your time

life is too short to waste your time on people who you aint happy with
friendowl Reviewed by friendowl on . Spicing up a 10 year marriage I love my husband with all my heart, but even when we met, it wasn't really chemistry that attracted me- it was all about who he was. Now, after 10 years together, never rollicking to start with, our sex life has dwindled to once every two weeks or so. We are definately in a slump! There are other contributing factors - menopause, Prozac (which is why I stopped taking it!) long hours working, etc. Besides that, neither of us makes a move, for me it's because I don't much feel the desire, and Rating: 5