go somewhere fun
make plans to escape , just the two of you
make plans to have good times together
he likes to drink so maybe you could get drunk together
take a walk and make fun of weird people
go somewhere lake a lake or waterfall and just sit and talk
all that crap leads to good sex which leads to a happy spouse

if that dont work out then its time to call it quits
find a new lover and enjoy your time

life is too short to waste your time on people who you aint happy with