I realize you think it is to early for counseling, however perhaps you should consider it now. It is likely that it would take just a few sessions to help improve the situation.

I might have been able to save my marriage if we would have talked to a
unbiased individual.

It is never to early to get counseling if there is a problem.

It might have saved my ex from growing fangs and craving my blood.

Lucky for me the cure for blood sucking demons is simple. You just give them a huge cash settlement and send them on their way.

Good luck. I am wishing you all the best